4. “I love you as you are.” - Deepstash

4. “I love you as you are.”

People have a deep need to feel accepted and loved. It’s important to remind them that they’re wonderful — not just for what they do, but for who they are.

Reminding someone of their value can take many forms, like:

  • To a direct report: “I feel lucky that you are on our team.”
  • To a colleague: “I admire you.”
  • To a friend: “I love spending time with you.”

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