You appear charming to others
- When people notice you are sure about yourself. This communicates strength.
- When people see you are not trying to be confident. Trying reveals desperation. Desperation isn't sexy.
- When you allow others to be themselves in your presence. You allow others to shine and aren't intent upon hogging the attention or making it about yourself.
- When people see that you are not about competing with others. Nobody enjoys someone who makes it about their ego to be above or better than others.
- When people notice that you actively listen and appreciate what others are saying. You make others feel seen.
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