In summary, you can avoid having to use your... - Deepstash

In summary, you can avoid having to use your willpower by doing the following:

  • choose 'want-to' goals (for which you have intrinsic motivations) rather than 'have-to' goals (for which you have extrinsic motivations)
  • if you can't choose want-to goals, increase your want-to motivation for the thing you have to do
      find activities that promote your goals and which are enjoyable at the same time
  • if you can't find enjoyable goal-promoting activities,
    • look for aspects within the activities you have to do which are immediately rewarding,
    • use temptation bundling (pairing an activity you have to do with an indulgence),
    • or decrease the value of indulgence with commitment contracts (agreeing to incur costs if you fail)
  • be careful not to self-reward with indulgence and don't rely on temptation bundling and commitment contracts only

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