Criticizing Others
One of the reasons it's so easy to slip into habitually criticizing others is that it makes us feel good:
- When you point out to yourself that someone else is dumb, you're also implying that you're smart. And that feels good.
- When you criticize someone else for being naive, what you're really doing it telling yourself that you're sophisticated. And that feels good.
- When you silently chuckle to yourself about how terrible someone's fashion sense is, you're telling yourself how refined your own taste is. And that feels good.
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