The next time you feel left out - your friends all go out to brunch together and they don’t invite you? Let them. The person you’re dating doesn’t want a commitment? Let them. Your company is laying people off? Let them.
We spend so much time and energy trying to control other people and getting emotionally worked up about things that are beyond our control, when we can tap into peace and control if we let people be themselves.
MEL ROBBINS
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If you let them, people will then reveal who they truly are to you.
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