Ask questions, not the plain and boring ones. Instead the interesting and deep ones.
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Be interested in people's stories
Interested people are interesting. Ask people questions.
Try to learn something you did not know before from your interlocutor.
Building "Love Maps"
It means getting to know your partner really well, including his/her internal psychological world.
Ask questions, deep and personal ones. Get past“When will you be there?” or “Don’t forget to pick up milk.”
How to ask better questions
- Ask open-ended questions: they unlock more information from people
- Ask “why” 3 times: the easiest way to deepen the level of a conversation
- Ask about specifics, not generalizations
- Frame questions around a person’s reactions to experiences...
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