Most People Don't Listen To Others

Most people don't like to hear their own voice, but nothing will squash those verbal ticks quite like listening to yourself speak. Record yourself in a natural conversation, such as a conference call, then replay and listen to yourself speak.

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• When you meet someone don’t judge, but listen attentively. Validate your thoughts without colouring them with prejudice or judgement.
• Take your time to understand the person’s needs, wants, dreams and aspirations.
• If during listening you come across stuff you don’t underst...

Finding a healthy balance between talking and listening is difficult in most relationships, but even harder as you get to know each other, so it’s important that you both get a chance to talk and listen.