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It's Ok To Be Scared. Just Don't Be AFRAID. | Stoic Motivation

Marcus Aurelius

Don't let your imagination be crushed by life as a whole. Don't try to picture everything bad that could possibly happen. Stick with the situation at hand, and ask, “Why is this so unbearable? Why can't I endure it?" You'll be embarrassed to answer.

Marcus Aurelius

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