<div class="insight_content">Because we are afraid of being judged, we keep out a lot of ideas and feelings.</div>So instead of talking about what we really want, we put on a sort of filter and spend the time discussing the weather, classes or sports, because all these are safe topics.

Why we use small talk

<div class="insight_content">Before sharing something weird about yourself, make sure your value is high enough; this means you have proper hygiene, you have a decent amount of social proof,  you are in decent shape, you dress well and make eye contact.</div>The higher your value, the easier it is to get away with saying something weird.

Make sure your value is high enough

You can use them to guide the conversation in a way that leads a person to open up.
<ul>
<li>How they work: you make assumptions about someone based on your observations and see if you are right or not.</li>
<li>How they help you: these questions show that you pay attention and care about what is being said. And if the assumption is wrong, they will react to it; you can use this reaction and start a new related conversation.</li>
</ul>

Assumption questions

To show that someone is safe to open up with you, share something that is considered to be somehow weird. Just be careful to not seem too crazy.
Sharing something slightly odd about you will signal to the other person that you don't really care about what others think and also that you are not a judgemental person, so they'll feel safe in your presence.

Share something weird

The reason we are afraid to open up, to share some things is the fact that we are afraid of how others will react.
If you want to make someone be comfortable in your presence and feel safe to open up, consider reducing the filter you use for "judging" the world around you.

Reducing your personal filter

A practical guide on how to make seamless small talk that leads to important connections 

loveandrelationships

Love & Relationships

mentalhealth

Mental Health

communication

Communication

personaldevelopment

Personal Development

How To Be Good at Parties

Learn More About My Habit Builder Program: http://improvementpill.net/programs Welcome to the BeeFriend course. In today's lesson, I'm going to share with you the mindset I have when trying to have deeper conversations with people. I'm often on the receiving end of many secrets and bottled up emotions from the get go. And this is because of 2 things that I tend to do while talking to others. This is how I get others to open up to me. Start From The Beginning (BeeFriend Course Playlist): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sHfGgOfmbx4&list=PLE_vQWWxgaiHbUFDuNnqxfui3lrE2jjwO&index=1 Tamed Course (FREE Habit Building Course): https://youtu.be/m8JjuyRIxOg

Learn More About My Habit Builder Program:
http://improvementpill.net/programs

Welcome to the BeeFriend course. In today's lesson, I'm going to share with you the mindset I have when trying to have deeper conversations with people. I'm often on the receiving end of many secrets and bottled up emotions from the get go. And this is because of 2 things that I tend to do while talking to others. This is how I get others to open up to me. 

Start From The Beginning (BeeFriend Course Playlist):
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sHfGgOfmbx4&list=PLE_vQWWxgaiHbUFDuNnqxfui3lrE2jjwO&index=1

Tamed Course (FREE Habit Building Course):
https://youtu.be/m8JjuyRIxOg

Taken like a multi-vitamin...but for your mind. 
Improvement Pill is dedicated towards conveying important ideas to those who are willing to change. 
Each video is designed to inspire, motivate, or teach you something that can change your life. 

Our Website:
http://www.improvementpill.net

Check Out My New FREE Course (The Art Of Storytelling): https://skl.sh/ImprovementPill

Tamed Course (FREE Habit Building Course): https://youtu.be/m8JjuyRIxOg 

BeeFriend Course (FREE Social Skills Course): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sHfGgOfmbx4&list=PLE_vQWWxgaiHbUFDuNnqxfui3lrE2jjwO&index=1 

Dating Advice For Men: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X192

DISCLAIMER: We are not certified health professionals, financial advisors, or therapists.
All of the content presented in videos on this channel are for informational purposes ONLY!




Share something weird

Similar ideas to Share something weird

Be willing to share about yourself

Share with someone you respect

Like To Help Others