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Learning These 9 Tough Skills Will Immediately Improve Your Entire Life

Without learning to manage your time, you let urgent tasks and other people control how you spend your life.

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Learning These 9 Tough Skills Will Immediately Improve Your Entire Life

Learning These 9 Tough Skills Will Immediately Improve Your Entire Life

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9 Skills That Will Immediately Improve Your Life

  • Thinking of your time as money
  • Scheduling your energy
  • Networking
  • Getting started early
  • Planning everything in advance
  • Setting short goals
  • Meditating and winding down
  • Active Listening
  • Eliminating ANTS(automatic negative thoughts)

Without learning to manage your time, you let urgent tasks and other people control how you spend your life.

Without learning to manage your time, you let urgent tasks and other people control how you spend your life.

“Remember, people do business with people they know, like, and trust.” - Susan Solovic

“Remember, people do business with people they know, like, and trust.” - Susan Solovic

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