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Six Spokes Theory: Strategy For An Optimal Life
Strategy For An Optimal Life: The Six-Spokes Theory
The Six-Spokes Theory divides our life into a wheel with six spokes, where all of them have to be tight and function smoothly. The aim is to lead a balanced and optimal life, and is not tied to the traditional idea of success.
The Spokes are as follows:
- Body: Your energy levels, diet, stamina, and strength.
- Mind: The ability to focus and learn.
- Love: The quality of relationships.
- Work: A meaningful and financially rewarding career.
- Money: How you utilize money.
- Play: Your recreational options.
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