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Correctly reading other people

Correctly reading other people

Emotions are powerful vehicles to guide us in reading people. We naturally track the behaviors of others to try and determine what they are thinking, feeling doing or planning. 

We determine people’s motives and intentions, even when our attention is not specifically on them.

These sensitivities to other people alert our gut instincts to the intentions of others and to sense any possible emotional changes in them.

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Analyze each person’s personality

Analyze each person’s personality

The way we communicate with people is based on how we perceive them to be, as people. 

When we are around a coworker who is more serious or intellectual it calls for a different interaction approach from us then when interacting with someone who is more laid back and easy g...

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Use empathy to predict intentions

Use empathy to predict intentions

Perspective taking relies not only upon our ability to share emotions with others, but also upon our capacity to regulate our own emotions

The point is not to ask ourselves what we would...

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Get to know people

Get to know people

What you know about where people come from and how they came to be the people they are is critical in determining what to say and do

It's frustrating when we give too much or too little information. Different persons react to just the rig...

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Think of others to learn how to act

Think of others to learn how to act

We observe people instinctively and notice subtleties such as what they are doing, where they are looking, and what their body language is indicating. This helps us determine if we feel comfortable around them which helps us decide if we want to interact with them and how.

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Interpreting words

Interpreting words

Most people speak indirectly, which requires us to infer the actual meaning of what they are trying to say. 

This creates a lot of room for misinterpretation, especially through text or email. 

What we decide to say or not say requires that we interpret as acc...

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Respecting differences within people

Respecting differences within people

Perspective taking requires the maturity to gain the knowledge and be respectful of another person’s personal beliefs. 

When we are disrespectful to another person and their belief system it is the quickest path to creating separation and division between people.

Not all people share ...

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