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Edit your self-talk

Edit your self-talk

  • "Not yet" instead of "I failed" puts you on a learning curve and a path into the future.
  • It breaks the obsession with 'now'..."I am a failure". But with a 'not yet', you get..." I don't know how to do the well yet".
  • The idea that abilities can be developed solidifies in our mind and takes away the need for constant validation.

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