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Three Star Leadership | Wally Bock | Leadership and Listening

Learn to Listen Well

  • Show that you’re paying attention. Lean in. Make eye contact. Nod.
  • Paraphrase what the other person said and ask them if you got it. 
  • Ask open-ended questions to encourage them to continue and increase your understanding.
  • Take notes during the conversation if it helps you and doesn’t make the other person uncomfortable. 

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Key Ideas

Leadership and Listening

Listening is a critical leadership skill you can master. 

It will help you learn about the people you work with, demonstrate you think they’re important, and help you make better decisions.

Listening will help you lead more effectively

  • When you listen, you learn: about your teammates and what’s important to them, ideas, stories, concerns.
  • Listening sends the message that you value the other person.
  • Listening helps you make good decisions: it slows you down so you can diagnose effectively before you act.

Learn to Listen Well

  • Show that you’re paying attention. Lean in. Make eye contact. Nod.
  • Paraphrase what the other person said and ask them if you got it. 
  • Ask open-ended questions to encourage them to continue and increase your understanding.
  • Take notes during the conversation if it helps you and doesn’t make the other person uncomfortable. 

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The Art of Confrontation

  • Develop relationships with your team members: that way both of you are more willing to listen.
  • Don’t put it off.
  • Choose a private and safe place.
  • ...

Tough conversations

If leadership is your job, you can’t walk away from them. Because they're part of your job.
These are conversations about performance and behavior. Most bosses dread them.

Make tough conversations easier

  • Touch base often, to catch problems when they're small.
  • Build relationships through conversations. Your employees will learn about you and whether they can trust you.
  • Have regular one-on-ones with your team members.
  • Solve problems as they appear. The smaller, the easier to handle.
  • Keep tough conversations private, away from distractions.
  • Tailor what you say and do to the person you’re meeting with.
  • Treat people with dignity.

Open Your Ears

Don’t jump to advanced listening techniques if you have poor listening skills as you’re very likely to get overwhelmed.

Start by just opening your ears, closing your mouth and looking the ...

What Someone Closed to Listening Thinks

  • How does this impact me?
  • When have I experienced this?
  • What would I do about this?
  • Where can I take this conversation?
  • What do I need to tell?

5 Roadblocks To Listening

  1. Disinterest in connecting.
  2. Long-talkers and explainers who never get to the point!
  3. Knowledge. Talkers know.
  4. Distraction by what’s next.
  5. Multi-tasking.