Worry and problem-solving: Why we confuse the two processes - Deepstash

Worry and problem-solving: Why we confuse the two processes

Just thinking about our problem can make us feel anxious.

It causes us to worry about the issue instead of focusing on the problem objectively. Worry also feels productive. But mulling over possible outcomes (mostly the bad ones) won't get us anywhere.

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