How to tell when you're worrying vs problem-solving
- When you're thinking about an issue, do you feel tense, distressed, and upset?
- Are you spending your time focusing on how bad the outcomes could be?
- Do you immediately dismiss all your solutions as ineffective?
If you answered yes to these questions, you might be worrying.
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