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1. You toss self-compassion to the wind.

1. You toss self-compassion to the wind.

Solution: Talk to yourself with kindness. Accept that you’re human, and be an optimistic coach rather than a negative critic.

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6. You focus less on the gains of the future and more on the gains of the present.

Solution: Remind yourself about the gains of the future, and de-emphasize the frustration of the present.

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7. Your perfectionism gets in the way.

You think, “It has to be perfect,” and this overly demanding standard keeps you from even getting started.

Solution: Work on diminishing the importance of doing things perfectly and emphasize the importance of completing tasks in a timely fashion. Keep a list of examples of...

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3. You don’t think you’ll be effective at the task.

Solution:

  • If you need a skill upgrade, get one.
  • Ask for help if it is available.
  • Use a new cognitive coping self-statement such as, “I can learn as I go,” or, “Extra time on this task will increase the odds of me being effective.”

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2. You’ve learned to procrastinate from role models.

Your parents, siblings, or other important role models may have demonstrated a “put it off” attitude, which you’ve now adopted as your own.

Solution: Talk to yourself about the negative consequences these role models faced when they procrastinated. Then find new role models...

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4. You have a bias against a particular type of task.

Solution: Challenge yourself to open your mind and prove your bias wrong.  Use the task as an opportunity to combat your bias.

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8. Depression or anxiety cause you to delay taking action.

Solution: Get proper treatment, including individual therapy with a licensed therapist. In addition to ruling out physical causes for your mood or anxiety.

Sometimes breaking your tasks into smaller, more manageable chunks maybe help.

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5. Your time estimates are... a little off!

Solution: Make a habit of starting earlier than you think you’ll need to and work on completing your task early.

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9. Discomfort intolerance leads you to disengage from the task.

Procrastination often comes from a belief that discomfort should be avoided, and you practice procrastination whenever you feel physically or psychologically uncomfortable.

Solution: Challenge your beliefs about tolerating discomfort and revise what you say to encourage you...

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