To create a new good habit or destroy an old bad one you just need to change your identity to yourself and others.
If you want to quit smoking, then whenever anyone offers you a cigarette, say "I'm not a Smoker."
If you want to build a good reading habit, tell others that you are a good reader.
When you start saying like that your subconscious takes it as an order and tries to act according to that.
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Avoid thinking about changing a habit, but instead think about changing your self-conception.
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You could choose and start a habit because of motivation, but you'll stick with it only if it becomes part of your identity.
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