Two possibilities With Achievements
1: If we set goals and achieve them.
- This sounds great but in reality feeling of success, achievement or fulfilment is very short lived
- We have to set the next bigger goal because we may not feel the way that we thought we would when we ‘arrive’.
- This is not healthy or sensible
2: If we set goals and fail.
- It will lead to pain, guilt and unhealthy self talk and beliefs
- Often it occurs due to the reasons that we actually couldn’t even control.
- We give our own well being over the the fate of a business or financial outcome.
- This too is not healthy nor is it sensible.
it’s a never ending cycl
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