4. Hold on to Your Power
When you go in begging for a favour it is unattractive and people are less inclined to help. You must act as though the favour is essential, but not necessary for them to help.
In doing so, you keep some of your power and are more likely to achieve what you want.
Remember, to not sound needy and instead present yourself as someone who is confident.
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