When the Guardian asked a hospice nurse for the Top 5 Regrets of the Dying, one of the most common answers was that people regretted not being true to their dreams.

National surveys find that when someone claims to have 5 or more friends with whom they can discuss important problems, they are 60 percent more likely to say that they are ‘very happy’.
Excerpt from the book Finding Flow.

True friends really are ...

... makes us happier. Possible reasons: 

• Experiences improve over time.
• People revisit experiences more often.
• Experiences are more unique.
• We adapt slowly to experiences, which makes us feel more energized and refreshed.
• Expe...

Happy people generally have at least one thing they’ve become proficient at, even if the learning process made them uncomfortable.

Self-esteem is good for confidence, but self-esteem that is bound to external success can be quite fickle. 

Think of yourself less and avoid the trap of tying your self-worth to external signals.