Awkward Conversations: The Coordination Problem
Two factors create a ‘coordination problem’ during an awkward conversation.
- The first is that we assume we know when the other person wants to leave but we calculate that incorrectly.
- The second factor is when we know what the other person wants but still cannot end the conversation suddenly by will. We cannot interrupt a story being told to us.
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