What to say to deflect nosy questions
You don't owe anyone personal information, especially not to satisfy their curiosity.
- To someone asking how much money you earn: " Trust me, not even close to what I'm worth."
- To someone who asks about your love life: "I'd rather not talk about this. When I have news to share, I'll let you know."
- To a colleague who wants to know what you plan on your day off: "That's why call it a personal day!"
Repeat your stock answer if the person persists.
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