I have found five amazing short books you can read in just one day. They’re a mixture of self-help and spiritual books.

Short books you can read in just one day

For No.5 we have “55 Questions to ask yourself” by Manoj Chenthamarakshan. This is the thinnest book, I have read so far, barely 40 pages long. We all have a tendency to ask blame-framing questions instead of doing that why not ask questions that empower you?  This book is full of important questions you should ask yourself in life to know yourself across all dimensions.

55 questions to ask yourself by Manoj

For No.4 we have a spiritual book named “As a man thinketh” by James Allen and this book talks about the power of thoughts and their effect on our health, body and circumstances; How we become what we think. This was my first spiritual book and I still come back to it from time to time. Highly recommended.

As a Man Thinketh by James Allen

For No.3 we have a book that talks about the man and his most famous speech on Vedanta given in London, on 10 November 1896 which began with the words “sister and brothers of America”, yes I am talking about Swami Vivekananda and his Book on Practical Vedanta as a philosophy.

Practical Vedanta by Swami Vivekanand

For No.2 we have “Eat that Frog” by Brian Tracy, one of the classics of all time on productivity. This book tells you about the importance of starting your day with the most important and hardest task. A good book for someone who procrastinates a lot. This book increased my productivity exponentially and made me an early bird from a night owl.

Eat that frog By Brian Tracy

For No.1 we have none other than the Seven spiritual laws of Success by Deepak Chopra. One of my favourite spiritual books of all time. This book talks about seven spiritual laws of success which also includes the law of karma and dharma. Highly recommended to people who wanna read about the law of karma and dharma, and how to use it for our benefit.

Seven spiritual laws of Success

Five amazing short books you can read in just one day.

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📚 5 Short Books you can read in just one day

This insightful article explores strategies to uncover shared perspectives amidst contentious situations. It highlights the importance of active listening, empathy, and curiosity as essential tools for navigating disagreements.

Navigating the Perplexing Labyrinth of Disagreement

Practice active listening to understand differing viewpoints. Put away your phone, resist the urge to interrupt, and truly engage in conversation.Be present and attentive, not just physically but mentally. Give others the space to express their ideas without jumping to conclusions.

Listen Up, Buttercup!

Step into someone else's shoes to see the world from their perspective. Empathy opens doors to understanding and connection.Consider the factors that shape someone's beliefs and values. Empathy allows for a deeper appreciation of their experiences and motivations.

Empathy: The Magic Potion

Cultivate a genuine curiosity about others' opinions, even if they differ from your own. Ask open-ended questions and explore diverse perspectives.Approach conversations with a desire to learn rather than to prove a point. Ask questions that encourage meaningful dialogue and invite varied viewpoints.

Curiosity Killed the Conflict

Seek common ground by focusing on shared values or goals. Look beyond surface disagreements to find underlying areas of agreement.Identify common objectives or aspirations that align with different parties. Build bridges by emphasizing shared interests and seeking win-win solutions.

It Takes Two (or More) to Tango

Lighten the mood with humor and levity. Laughter can dissolve tension and foster a more relaxed atmosphere for constructive conversations.Use well-timed humor to diffuse conflicts and create a positive environment. A well-placed joke can help build rapport and ease the strain of disagreement.

Humor: The Glue of Human Connection

Accept that finding common ground doesn't mean complete agreement. Aim for incremental progress, focusing on areas where compromise is possible.Understand that complete consensus may not be feasible, but strive for small steps forward. Celebrate the achievement of finding commonalities and making incremental changes.

Progress Over Perfection

Finding common ground is an art, not a science. These key learning points will equip you with the tools to navigate disagreements with wit and grace.

Remember! 

These key learning points will equip you with the tools to navigate disagreements with wit and grace.

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Discovering Common Ground: Navigating Disagreement

Here are the 13 lessons I hope will help you operate at your absolute best (feel free to share them with your loved ones if you think it will help).

1. Excellent things happen to people who do excellent things.﻿

2. Morning exercise is a game-changer.

3. The things that are hardest to do are the things that are generally the wisest to do.

4. Creativity shines brightest when we are alone. Make time for silence, stillness and solitude.﻿

5. Education is inoculation against disruption. Read for an hour each day to protect your hope, refine your craft and grow your knowledge.

6. The fears you don’t face become your walls. And doubts are destroyed by strong action.

7. What hurts us can help us. Leverage hardship to reclaim your natural heroism.

8. Cheap costs more.

9. The game of leadership is helpfulness.

10. Mastery takes massive practice, unrelenting patience and vast devotion. It’s a very difficult obsession. And one of the best commitments you can make. ﻿

11. Keep your promises. Never lie. Outwork your peers. Deliver beautiful value. People watch what you do. Even if you think they don’t.

12. You can’t inspire others if you are uninspired. Actively work to keep your enthusiasm and inner fire high. Be with art. Go to conferences. Travel. Explore. ﻿

13. Life can change in a day. Savor the blessings of this moment. Even if you’re going through a trial, you still have much to be grateful for.

make 2023 the single most productive, prosperous, peaceful and excellent year of your lifetime.

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13 lessons life has taught me💡

Your efforts will always pay off.You'll always be paid in lessons and experience.Introspecting your feelings, ideas, and progress helps unlock those lessons.

Progress is great. But are you progressing on the right things?Noticing your negative feelings can tell you what’s wrong:<ul><li>Misalignment between actions and values/purpose/goals</li><li>Flaws in your strategy and execution</li><li>Overexertion</li></ul>

😶 Feelings

As you work towards your goal, you’re likely to encounter new information and perspectives.These can spark ideas for:<ul><li>improving your quality of work</li><li>improving your systems & processes</li></ul>

💡 Ideas

Most systems boil down to these 3 questions:<ul><li>How much progress (relative to a goal) did I accomplish?</li><li>What actions were effective in creating this progress?</li><li>What didn’t work, and how can I do better?</li></ul> Feel free to use more prompts to get a more detailed analysis.

📈 Progress

<ul><li>Double down on the actions that worked</li><li>Re-alignment (if necessary)</li><li>Experiment with ideas (and iterate)</li></ul>

🤨 What to do with all this data?

<ul><li>Introspect consistently (daily, weekly, etc.)</li><li>Record them in your note-taking system</li><li>Refer to your records whenever needed</li></ul>

How to collect these data?

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Your efforts will always pay off. Introspection helps with extracting those rewards.

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3 data points to collect for faster goal achievement

“I encourage all of us, whatever our beliefs, to question the basic narratives of our world, to connect past developments with present concerns and not to be afraid of controversial issues"

<ul><li>The best thing fire did was cook.</li><li>Cooking killed germs and parasites that infested food.</li><li>The advent of cooking enabled humans to eat more kinds of food, to devote less time to eating, and to make do with smaller teeth and shorter intestines.</li><li>Whereas chimpanzees spend five hours a day chewing raw food, a single hour suffices for people eating cooked food.</li></ul>

A Race Of Cooks

<ul><li>You could never convince a monkey to give you a banana by promising him limitless bananas after death in monkey heaven.</li><li>But why is it important? After all, fiction can be dangerously misleading or distracting.</li><li>People who go to the forest looking for fairies and unicorns would seem to have less chance of survival than people who go looking for mushrooms and deer.</li><li>And if you spend hours praying to non-existing guardian spirits, aren’t you wasting precious time, time better spent foraging, fighting and fornicating?</li></ul>

The Tree Of Knowledge 

<ul><li>Large numbers of strangers can cooperate successfully by believing in common myths.</li><li>Yet none of these things exists outside the stories that people invent and tell one another. There are no gods in the universe, no nations, no money, no human rights, no laws, and no justice outside the common imagination of human beings. </li></ul>

An Imagined Order

<ul><li>Ever since the Cognitive Revolution, Sapiens has thus been living in a dual reality.</li><li>On the one hand, the objective reality of rivers, trees and lions; and on the other hand, the imagined reality of gods, nations and corporations.</li><li>When two strangers in a tribal society want to trade, they will often establish trust by appealing to a common god, mythical ancestor or totem animal.</li></ul>

Dual Reality 

<ul><li>A natural order is a stable order. There is no chance that gravity will cease to function tomorrow, even if people stop believing in it.</li><li>In contrast, an imagined order is always in danger of collapse, because it depends upon myths, and myths vanish once people stop believing in them.</li></ul>

Natural Order Vs Imagined Order

<ul><li>In the savannahs and forests they inhabited, high-calorie sweets were extremely rare and food in general was in short supply.</li><li>The instinct to gorge on high-calorie food was hard-wired into our genes.</li><li>Today we may be living in high-rise apartments with over-stuffed refrigerators, but our DNA still thinks we are in the savannah.</li></ul>

Why we binge on the sweetest and greasiest food we can find?

<ul><li>The Agricultural Revolution was history’s biggest fraud.</li><li>Who was responsible? The culprits were a handful of plant species, including wheat, rice and potatoes.</li><li>The body of Homo sapiens had not evolved for such tasks. It was adapted to climbing apple trees and running after gazelles, not to clearing rocks and carrying water buckets.</li><li>Moreover, the new agricultural tasks demanded so much time that people were forced to settle permanently next to their wheat fields. This completely changed their way of life.</li><li>We did not domesticate wheat. It domesticated us.</li></ul>

History’s Biggest Fraud

One of history’s few iron laws is that luxuries tend to become necessities and to spawn new obligations. Once people get used to a certain luxury, they take it for granted. Then they begin to count on it. Finally they reach a point where they can’t live without it.

The Luxury Trap

<ul><li>Henceforth, attachment to ‘my house’ and separation from the neighbours became the psychological hallmark of a much more self-centred creature.</li><li>People found it difficult to leave their artificial islands. They could not abandon their houses, fields and granaries without grave risk of loss.</li></ul>

Building Pyramids

<ul><li>In organised crime, the big boss is not necessarily the strongest man. He is often an older man who very rarely uses his own fists; he gets younger and fitter men to do the dirty jobs for him.</li><li>If people realise that human rights exist only in the imagination, isn’t there a danger that our society will collapse?</li><li>Voltaire said that ‘there is no God, but don’t tell that to my servant, lest he murder me at night’.</li></ul>

There is No Justice in History

A Myths and fictions accustomed people, nearly from the moment of birth, to think in certain ways, to behave in accordance with certain standards, to want certain things, and to observe certain rules. They thereby created artificial instincts that enabled millions of strangers to cooperate effectively.This network of artificial instincts is called culture’.

The Arrow Of Histroy

<ul><li>Money is not coins and banknotes.</li><li>Money is anything that people are willing to use in order to represent systematically the value of other things for the purpose of exchanging goods and services.</li><li>Money is thus a universal medium of exchange that enables people to convert almost everything into almost anything else.</li><li>Money isn’t a material reality–it is a psychological construct.</li><li>Trust is the raw material from which all types of money are minted.</li></ul>

How Does Money Work?

<ul><li>Money is accordingly a system of mutual trust, and not just any system of mutual trust: money is the most universal and most efficient system of mutual trust ever devised.</li><li>Why do I believe in the gold coin or dollar bill? Because my neighbours believe in them. And my neighbours believe in them because I believe in them. And we all believe in them because our king believes in them and demands them in taxes.</li></ul>

The Scent Of Money

<ul><li>Religion can be defined as a system of human norms and values that is founded on a belief in a superhuman order.</li><li>Today religion is often considered a source of discrimination, disagreement and disunion.</li><li>Yet, in fact, religion has been the third great unifier of humankind, alongside money and empires.</li><li>Since all social orders and hierarchies are imagined, they are all fragile, and the larger the society, the more fragile it is.</li></ul>

Law of Religion

"Humans emerge from the womb like molten glass from a furnace. They can be spun, stretched and shaped with a surprising degree of freedom. This is why today we can educate our children to become Christian or Buddhist, capitalist or socialist, warlike or peace-loving."

People pursue wealth and power, acquire knowledge and possessions, beget sons and daughters, and build houses and palaces. Yet no matter what they achieve, they are never content. Everything that one has accumulated vanishes like smoke. Life is a pointless rat race.But how to escape it?

Never Contented Sapiens

<ul><li>Buddha’s insight was that no matter what the mind experiences, it usually reacts with craving, and craving always involves dissatisfaction.</li><li>"Suffering arises from craving ; the only way to be liberated from craving is to train the mind to experience reality as it is."</li><li>If the mind of a person is free of all craving, no god can make him miserable.</li><li>Conversely, once craving arises in a person’s mind, all the gods in the universe cannot save him from suffering.</li></ul>

Craving Is Suffering 

<ul><li>But modern science differs from all previous traditions of knowledge: The willingness to admit ignorance. </li><li>Even more critically, it accepts that the things that we think we know could be proven wrong as we gain more knowledge.</li><li>The great discovery that launched the Scientific Revolution was the discovery that humans do not know the answers to their most important questions.</li></ul>

The Discovery of Ignorance

<ul><li>Many cultures believed that lightning was the hammer of an angry god, used to punish sinners.</li><li>In the middle of the eighteenth century, Benjamin Franklin flew a kite during a lightning storm to test the hypothesis that lightning is simply an electric current.</li><li>Franklins empirical observations, coupled with his knowledge about the qualities of electrical energy, enabled him to invent the lightning rod and disarm the gods.</li></ul>

Ben Franklin Disarming The Gods

Throughout history, societies have suffered from two kinds of poverty:<ol><li>Social poverty, which withholds from some people the opportunities available to others.</li><li>Biological poverty, which puts the very lives of individuals at risk due to lack of food and shelter.</li></ol><ul><li>People still suffer from numerous degradations, humiliations and poverty-related illnesses, but in most countries nobody is starving to death.</li><li>In fact, in many societies more people are in danger of dying from obesity than from starvation.</li></ul>

Social And Biological Poverty

<ul><li>In the new capitalist creed, the first and most sacred commandment is: ‘The profits of production must be reinvested in increasing production.’</li></ul>Napoleon made fun of the British, calling them a nation of shopkeepers. Yet these shopkeepers defeated Napoleon himself, and their empire was the largest the world has ever seen.

Capitalist Creed

<ul><li>Today in the United States, only 2 per cent of the population makes a living from agriculture, yet this 2 per cent produces enough not only to feed the entire US population, but also to export surpluses to the rest of the world.</li><li>Humans now produce far more steel, manufacture much more clothing, and build many more structures than ever before. For the first time in human history, supply began to outstrip demand.</li><li>And an entirely new problem was born: who is going to buy all this stuff?</li></ul>

A Growing Pie

<ul><li>Most people throughout history lived under conditions of scarcity.</li><li>Consumerism has worked very hard, with the help of popular psychology (‘Just do it!’) to convince people that indulgence is good for you, whereas frugality is self-oppression.</li><li>It has succeeded. We are all good consumers. We buy countless products that we don’t really need, and that until yesterday we didn’t know existed.</li></ul>

The Age Of Shopping

<ul><li>In the affluent world of today one of the leading health problems is obesity, which strikes the poor even more severely than the rich.</li><li>Each year the US population spends more money on diets than the amount needed to feed all the hungry people in the rest of the world.</li><li>Obesity is a double victory for consumerism. Instead of eating little, which will lead to economic contraction, people eat too much and then buy diet products–contributing to economic growth twice over.</li></ul>

Obesity Is A Double Victory 

<ul><li>In medieval Europe, aristocrats spent their money carelessly on extravagant luxuries, whereas peasants lived frugally, minding every penny.</li><li>Today, the tables have turned.</li><li>The rich take great care managing their assets and investments, while the less well heeled go into debt buying cars and televisions they don’t really need.</li><li>The capitalist and consumerist ethics are two sides of the same coin, a merger of two commandments.</li></ul><ol><li>The supreme commandment of the rich is ‘Invest!’</li><li>The supreme commandment of the rest of us is ‘Buy!’</li></ol>

Invest Or Buy

<ul><li>Our children’s books and our TV screens are still full of giraffes, wolves and chimpanzees, but the real world has very few of them left. There are about 80,000 giraffes in the world, compared to 1.5 billion cattle; only 200,000 wolves, compared to 400 million domesticated dogs; only 250,000 chimpanzees–in contrast to billions of humans.</li><li>Humankind really has taken over the world.</li></ul>

Destruction Of Nature

<ul><li>Many call this process ‘the destruction of nature’. But it’s not really destruction, it’s change. Nature cannot be destroyed.</li><li>Sixty-five million years ago, an asteroid wiped out the dinosaurs, but in so doing opened the way forward for mammals.</li><li>Today, humankind is driving many species into extinction and might even annihilate itself.</li><li>But other organisms are doing quite well. Rats and cockroaches would probably creep out from beneath the smoking rubble of a nuclear Armageddon, ready and able to spread their DNA.</li></ul>

Change Of Nature

The state and the market approached people with an offer that could not be refused. ‘Become individuals,’ they said."Marry whomever you desire, without asking permission from your parents. Live wherever you wish, even if you cannot make it every week to the family dinner. You are no longer dependent on your family or your community.We, the state and the market, will take care of you instead. We will provide food, shelter, education, health, welfare and employment. We will provide pensions, insurance and protection."

The Collapse of the Family and the Community

<ul><li>In the last two centuries, the intimate communities have withered, leaving imagined communities to fill in the emotional vacuum.</li><li>Consumerism and nationalism work extra hours to make us imagine that millions of strangers belong to the same community as ourselves, that we all have a common past, common interests and a common future. This isn’t a lie. It’s imagination. They exist only in our collective imagination, yet their power is immense.</li></ul>

Imagined Communities 

<ul><li>Madonna fans, for example, constitute a consumer tribe.</li><li>They define themselves largely by shopping. They buy Madonna concert tickets, CDs, posters, shirts and ring tones, and thereby define who they are.</li><li>Manchester United fans, vegetarians and environmentalists are other examples.</li></ul>

Consumer Tribe 

<ul><li>In 1945 Britain ruled a quarter of the globe. Thirty years later it ruled just a few small islands.</li><li>International wars became rare only after 1945, largely thanks to the new threat of nuclear annihilation.</li><li>While war became less profitable, peace became more lucrative than ever.</li><li>The economy has grown exponentially, and humankind today enjoys the kind of wealth that used to be the stuff of fairy tales.</li></ul>

Peace In Our Time

<ul><li>Money brings happiness.</li><li>Family and community seem to have more impact on our happiness than money and health.</li><li>Happiness depends on the correlation between objective conditions and subjective expectations.</li><li>If you want a bullock-cart and get a bullock-cart, you are content. If you want a brand-new Ferrari and get only a second-hand Fiat you feel deprived.</li></ul>

Counting Happiness

<ul><li>When things improve, expectations balloon, and consequently even dramatic improvements in objective conditions can leave us dissatisfied.</li><li>It is all a matter of expectations. If happiness is determined by expectations, then two pillars of our society–mass media and the advertising industry–may unwittingly be depleting the globe’s reservoirs of contentment.</li></ul>

Expectations Balloon

<ul><li>Happiness is determined by a complex system of nerves, neurons, synapses and various biochemical substances such as serotonin, dopamine and oxytocin.</li><li>People are made happy by one thing –pleasant sensations in their bodies.</li><li>If sex were not accompanied by such pleasure, few males would bother.</li><li>At the same time, evolution made sure that these pleasant feelings quickly subsided. If orgasms were to last for ever, the very happy males would die of hunger for lack of interest in food, and would not take the trouble to look for additional fertile females.</li></ul>

Chemical Happiness 

<ul><li>Take the work involved in raising a child. Kahneman found that when counting moments of joy and moments of drudgery, bringing up a child turns out to be a rather unpleasant affair.</li><li>It consists largely of changing nappies, washing dishes and dealing with temper tantrums, which nobody likes to do.</li><li>Yet most parents declare that their children are their chief source of happiness.</li></ul>

And They Lived Happily Ever After

<ul><li>Happiness is not the surplus of pleasant over unpleasant moments. Rather, happiness consists in seeing one’s life in its entirety as meaningful and worthwhile.</li><li>A meaningful life can be extremely satisfying even in the midst of hardship, whereas a meaningless life is a terrible ordeal no matter how comfortable it is.</li></ul>

Know Thyself

"If you have a why to live, you can bear almost any how."

<ul><li>SEVENTY THOUSAND YEARS AGO, HOMO sapiens was still an insignificant animal minding its own business in a corner of Africa.</li><li>In the following millennia it transformed itself into the master of the entire planet and the terror of the ecosystem.</li><li>Today it stands on the verge of becoming a god, poised to acquire not only eternal youth, but also the divine abilities of creation and destruction.</li></ul>

The Animal that Became a God

"Fire give us powerFarming made us hungry for moreMoney gave us purposeScience made us deadly"

History doesn't repeat itself, but it rhymes. Learn from the past, shape a better future.

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Understand yourself and those around you.

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Lessons of History

“People don’t like to think, if one thinks, one must reach conclusions. Conclusions are not always pleasant.” — Helen Keller

New York Times Bestseller A Summer Reading Pick for President Barack Obama, Bill Gates, and Mark Zuckerberg From a renowned historian comes a groundbreaking narrative of humanity’s creation and evolution—a #1 international bestseller—that explores the ways in which biology and history have defined us and enhanced our understanding of what it means to be “human.” One hundred thousand years ago, at least six different species of humans inhabited Earth. Yet today there is only one—homo sapiens. What happened to the others? And what may happen to us? Most books about the history of humanity pursue either a historical or a biological approach, but Dr. Yuval Noah Harari breaks the mold with this highly original book that begins about 70,000 years ago with the appearance of modern cognition. From examining the role evolving humans have played in the global ecosystem to charting the rise of empires, Sapiens integrates history and science to reconsider accepted narratives, connect past developments with contemporary concerns, and examine specific events within the context of larger ideas. Dr. Harari also compels us to look ahead, because over the last few decades humans have begun to bend laws of natural selection that have governed life for the past four billion years. We are acquiring the ability to design not only the world around us, but also ourselves. Where is this leading us, and what do we want to become? Featuring 27 photographs, 6 maps, and 25 illustrations/diagrams, this provocative and insightful work is sure to spark debate and is essential reading for aficionados of Jared Diamond, James Gleick, Matt Ridley, Robert Wright, and Sharon Moalem.

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Science & Nature

New York Times BestsellerA Summer Reading Pick for President Barack Obama, Bill Gates, and Mark Zuckerberg From a renowned historian comes a groundbreaking narrative of humanity’s creation and evolution—a #1 international bestseller—that explores the ways in which biology and history have defined us and enhanced our understanding of what it means to be “human.”One hundred thousand years ago, at least six different species of humans inhabited Earth. Yet today there is only one—homo sapiens. What happened to the others? And what may happen to us?Most books about the history of humanity pursue either a historical or a biological approach, but Dr. Yuval Noah Harari breaks the mold with this highly original book that begins about 70,000 years ago with the appearance of modern cognition. From examining the role evolving humans have played in the global ecosystem to charting the rise of empires, Sapiens integrates history and science to reconsider accepted narratives, connect past developments with contemporary concerns, and examine specific events within the context of larger ideas.Dr. Harari also compels us to look ahead, because over the last few decades humans have begun to bend laws of natural selection that have governed life for the past four billion years. We are acquiring the ability to design not only the world around us, but also ourselves. Where is this leading us, and what do we want to become?Featuring 27 photographs, 6 maps, and 25 illustrations/diagrams, this provocative and insightful work is sure to spark debate and is essential reading for aficionados of Jared Diamond, James Gleick, Matt Ridley, Robert Wright, and Sharon Moalem.

Yuval Noah Harari is an Israeli public intellectual, historian and professor in the Department of History at the Hebrew University of Jerusalem. He is the author of the popular science bestsellers Sapiens: A Brief History of Humankind, Homo Deus: A Brief History of Tomorrow, and 21 Lessons for the 21st Century.

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Sapiens

One great way to connect with people is by being interested in them and in the things that interest them.

How To Connect With People

If you want to make a good impression, giving yourself the value you deserve is crucial. Before expecting people to value you, think well of you, and admire you. You can't expect others others to believe in you if you don't believe in yourself

How To Make Good Impression 

Poeple don't want to be judged. They want to be liked and made to feel important

Stop Judging 

Do you feel awkward when you are around people? You don't really know what to say or how to start a conversation on a Networking event? Having problems with your boss or employees and don't know how to convince them to follow your lead? Do you want to improve the relationships with your spouse, confidants, or friends? Or would you just like to improve your people skills and your ability to create powerfully, lasting impressions on everyone you get in touch with from this day on? In his new book How to become a People Magnet international bestselling author and personal development consultant Marc Reklau reveals the secrets and psychology behind successful relationships with other people. Your success and happiness in life - at home and in business -, to a great extent, depend on how you get along with other people. Are you able to influence and persuade them? Although success can mean something different for each person, there is one common denominator: other people. The most successful people, quite often, aren't the ones with superior intelligence or the best skills, and the happiest people most times aren't smarter than we are, yet they are the ones who have the greatest people skills. In this practical and straightforward guide, you will learn specific principles that will help you to build more powerful relationships, stronger connections, and leave a positive, lasting impression on everyone you get in touch with. Most of them are common sense, but it's always good to have a reminder, because as they say "Common sense is the least common of all senses." How to become a People Magnet will give you the tools you need to achieve the results you have always desired and become great with people. You will learn: <ul> <li>What the most important subject of any conversation is</li> <li>How influence others</li> <li>How to create powerful relationships</li> <li>How to make a great first impression and achieve that people like you immediately</li> <li>How to really connect with people on a deeper level</li> <li>How to convince people and get them to say yes to you</li> <li>How to communicate effectively</li> <li>How to avoid committing the deadly sin in human relations</li> <li>How to make the human ego the ally in any of your endeavors</li> <li>How to handle complaints and critics smoothly</li> <li>How to multiply your influence</li> <li>How to get and hold people's attention</li> <li>How to listen effectively and be the most intelligent person in the room</li> <li>How to use body language to build immediate trust and make stronger connections</li> <li>How to get everyone to want to be around you</li> </ul> ...and much more... Good skills with people many times make the difference between losing your job or getting a promotion: between making the sale or losing it; between great customer service and being expandable as a supplier; between being THE ONE or just a friend; between a smile and an angry look. Once again it's small changes that will cause big results. Becoming a people magnet is easier than you thought. Apply the advice of this book and your life will never be the same. The benefits are countless, and the results will show anywhere people are involved. Download your copy today by clicking the BUY NOW button at the top of this page!

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Habits

Marc Reklau (Esslingen am Neckar, Germany, 1973) is an Award Winning and #1 Amazon Best Selling Author, Coach and Personal Development Expert. His current home base is the beautiful city of Barcelona, Spain. Marc's mission is to empower people to create the life they want and to give them the resources and tools to make it happen.He spent thousands of hours researching, studying and applying the principles and secrets of success and happiness. His message is simple:Many people want to change things in their lives, but few are willing to do a simple set of exercises constantly over a period of time. You can plan and create success and happiness in your life by installing habits that support you on the way to your goal.

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How to Become a People Magnet

<ol><li>Your life isn’t a one-act play.</li><li>You’re never too smart to be confused.</li><li>Gravitate toward work that solves an important problem.</li><li>Don’t underestimate the power of friendship.</li><li>You’re not a slacker if you cut yourself some slack.</li></ol>

The Five Things

What you do tomorrow—or for the next ten years—does not have to be what you do forever.

I thought I knew everything I needed to know when I left college. But the first step to learning something new is embracing what you don’t know, instead of focusing on what you do know.

5 things I wish I heard at the graduation I never had : Bill Gates

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5 things I wish I heard at the graduation I never had : Bill Gates

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