You can reason with a hundred people, but you need riot gear to deal with ten thousand angry customers.

EVERY BIG JOURNEY BEGINS WITH A SMALL STEP.

Praemonitus praemunitus(forewarned is forearmed(

Education is not the answer to the question. Education is the means to answer all questions.

Things which matter most must never be at the mercy of things which matter least.

Who goeth a borrowing, goeth a sorrowing... A fool and his money are soon parted

The very substance of the ambitious is merely the shadow of a dre

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Some Quotes Of Famous Personalities

Nothing is stronger than a small hope that doesn't give up. There will be other days.

An instant New York Times Bestseller! The new uplifting book from Matt Haig, the #1 New York Times bestselling author of The Midnight Library, for anyone in search of hope, looking for a path to a more meaningful life, or in need of a little encouragement. Named by The Washington Post as one of the best feel-good books of the year “It is a strange paradox, that many of the clearest, most comforting life lessons are learnt while we are at our lowest. But then we never think about food more than when we are hungry and we never think about life rafts more than when we are thrown overboard.” THE COMFORT BOOK is Haig’s life raft: it’s a collection of notes, lists, and stories written over a span of several years that originally served as gentle reminders to Haig’s future self that things are not always as dark as they may seem. Incorporating a diverse array of sources from across the world, history, science, and his own experiences, Haig offers warmth and reassurance, reminding us to slow down and appreciate the beauty and unpredictability of existence.

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Matt Haig was born in Sheffield, England. He writes books for both adults and children, often blending the worlds of domestic reality and outright fantasy, with a quirky twist.

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The Comfort Book

"Of all the uplifting, ennobling thoughts we can dwell upon, none is more powerful than this: that we are the masters of our own thoughts, the authors of our own characters, and thus the makers of our own destinies."

"Even when events or situations are out of our control, our thoughts, reactions, and responses are still within our control."

"People do not attract what they want, but what they are."

"The human will, that unseen force,Offspring of mind and soul,Can forge a path to any goal,And conquer anything in its course."

"Healthy thoughts become healthy habits. Hold a vision of yourself aglow with energy and vitality, act in harmony with that vision, and you will grow to embody it."

"Thoughts of jealousy, hatred, indifference, disappointment, and despair rob the body of its natural radiance. A 'sour face' is the expression of sour thoughts."

"To wish the best for all people; to find the good in everything; to be content in all circumstances - such thoughts are the portal to heaven.

"In order to accomplish anything, thought needs purpose. Too often, we allow our thoughts to drift aimlessly on the seas of life; purpose powers them to a desired destination."

"Those who lack a central purpose in life fall prey to worries, fears, and petty troubles, and end up stuck in self-pity. They may appear virtuous, because they lack any glaring faults and make no great mistakes, but they take a long, winding route to failure and unhappiness just the same."

"Entertaining fear and doubt never accomplished anything. The power to do springs from the confidence that you can."

"As you think, so you are.As you are, so you act.As you act, so you attain."

"A strong person cannot help a weak person unless they want to be helped; even then, the weak person must work to become stronger. By your own efforts, you must develop in yourself the qualities you admire in another."

"Good leaders are scarce because the majority of people are followers. Let's stop thinking and acting like helpless victims, rise up, and become leaders."

"To achieve anything - even material possessions - we must lift our thoughts above sloth and self-indulgence."

"All spiritual and intellectual achievements come from contemplating the beautiful, the good, and the true."

"Dreamers are the redeemers of the world. Humankind is blessed in good times, and sustained through hard times, by the visions of dreamers."

"The person who cherishes a beautiful vision in their heart will one day realize it.

"Cherish your visions and ideals; cherish the music that moves your heart. For out of your love will flow your purpose, your unique contribution to better this world."

"All that you need is within yourself - awaken your powers. Self-discipline is strength. Right thought is mastery. Calmness is power."

"Say to your heart, 'Peace, be still.'"

For over 120 years, As A Man Thinketh by James Allen has been considered one of the greatest self help books ever written. It focuses on how our thoughts sculpt our lives and our destinies, giving guidance in a surprisingly compact and quick read. Here are a few quotes from its pages.

THIS little self-help volume (the result of meditation and experience) is not intended as an exhaustive treatise on the much-written-upon subject of the power of thought. It is suggestive rather than explanatory, its object being to stimulate men and women to the discovery and perception of the truth that-- "They themselves are makers of themselves." By virtue of the thoughts, which they choose and encourage; that mind is the master-weaver, both of the inner garment of character and the outer garment of circumstance, and that, as they may have hitherto woven in ignorance and pain they may now weave in enlightenment and happiness.

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James Allen is an accomplished writer whose work has resonated with readers around the world. James Allen has published several books that explore a range of topics, from fiction to nonfiction, and has received critical acclaim for the ability to weave compelling narratives. James Allen's writing style is known for its depth and authenticity, and has earned quite a loyal following of readers.

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As a Man Thinketh

Sometimes when you're in a dark place you think you've been buried;but you've actually been planted.

Maybe it’s not the end; maybe it’s the start.

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Christine Caine: When You’re In A Dark Place

The term "hedonism" is derived from the Greek "hedone" meaning simply "pleasure". In common language, Hedonism has come to mean devotion to pleasure as a way of life, especially to the pleasures of the senses, and is synonymous with sensualism, libertinism, debauchery and dissipation.

Term

Hedonism is the philosophy that pleasure is the most important pursuit of mankind, and the only thing that is good for an individual. Hedonists, therefore, strive to maximize their total pleasure (the net of any pleasure less any pain or suffering). They believe that pleasure is the only good in life, and pain is the only evil, and our life's goal should be to maximize pleasure and minimize pain.

Psychological Hedonism is the view that humans are psychologically constructed in such a way that we exclusively desire pleasure. Ethical Hedonism, on the other hand, is the view that our fundamental moral obligation is to maximize pleasure or happiness. It is the normative claim that we should always act so as to produce our own pleasure.

The Paradox of Hedonism (also called the Pleasure Paradox), points out that pleasure and happiness are strange phenomena that do not obey normal principles, in that they cannot be acquired directly, only indirectly and we often fail to attain pleasures if we deliberately seek them.

The Paradox

Hedonism usually pre-supposes an individualist stance, and is associated with Egoism (the claim that individuals should always seek their own good in all things). Epicureanism is a more moderate approach (which still seeks to maximize happiness, but which defines happiness more as a state of tranquillity than pleasure). A similar but more altruistic approach results in Utilitarianism, the position that the moral worth of any action is determined by its contribution to overall utility in maximizing happiness or pleasure as summed among all people.

Stance

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HEDONISM

Atomism is a Pre-Socratic school of thought from ancient Greece, established in the late 5th Century B.C. by Leucippus of Miletus and his more famous student, Democritus. It teaches that the hidden substance in all physical objects consists of different arrangements of atoms and void

Atomism

No writings by the movement's founder, Leucippus, have survived, and we have just a few fragments of the writings of Democritus in secondhand reports, sometimes unreliable or conflicting. Much of the best evidence is that reported by Aristotle in his criticisms of Atomism, which he regarded as an important rival current in natural philosophy.

Writings

philosopher Lucretius (c. 99 - 55 B.C.) whose "On the Nature of Things" was one of the definitive works of Epicureanism, but also of Atomism. It argues that the universe and all substance is eternal, composed of atoms moving in an infinite void and nothing else, and that the human soul also consists of minute atoms that dissipate into smoke when a person dies.

Of Democritus' and Epicurus' followers

Nicolaus Copernicus (1473 - 1543) and Galileo Galilei (1564 - 1642), who himself converted to Atomism when he found that his corpuscular theory of matter and his experiments with falling bodies and inclined planes contradicted the mainstream Aristotelian theories.The English philosophers Sir Francis Bacon and Thomas Hobbes were both confirmed Atomists for a time, as was Giordano Bruno in Italy.

Famous Atomist (Scientist And Philosopher

The main figures in the rebirth of Atomism were the French philosophers René Descartes, Pierre Gassendi, and the Irish philosopher and scientist Robert Boyle.

The Revival

Descartes’ mechanical philosophy of corpuscularism (that everything physical in the universe is made of tiny “corpuscles” of matter, and that sensations, such as taste or temperature, are caused by the shape and size of tiny pieces of matter) had much in common with Atomism, and may be considered in some sense another version of it, although for Descartes there could be no void, and all matter was constantly swirling to prevent a void as corpuscles moved through other matter.

Descartes' Atomism

He formulated his atomistic conception of mechanical philosophy partly in response to Descartes, particularly opposing Descartes’ reductionist view that only purely mechanical explanations of physics are valid.

Gassendi's Atomism

Robert Boyle's form of Atomism, which came to be accepted by most English scientists, was essentially an amalgamation of the two French systems. He arrived at it after encountering problems reconciling Aristotelian physics with his chemistry experimentation.

Boyle's Atomism

Philosophical Atomism led to the development of early scientific atomic theory, modern science has shown that atoms in the chemical sense are actually composed of smaller particles (electrons, neutrons and protons), and that these in turn are composed of even more fundamental particles called quarks. Although the principle can still theoretically apply, there are few, if any, modern-day atomists.

Conclusion

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ATOMISM

This book is about the exploration of the different facets of human love, including affection, friendship, erotic love, and the love of God. It delves into the complexities and nuances of these different typrs of love, offering a candid, eise, and personal perspective that allows readers to connect with the intimate thoughts of the author, C. S. Lewis. it provides a deep understanding of the nature of love and its impact on human relationship, offering valuablr insights that can resonate with readers on a personal and emotional level.

Four Categories of Human Love

<ol><li class="ql-align-justify">Affection: The humbles, most widespread from of Love.</li><li class="ql-align-justify">Friendship: A bond between individuals with shared interests.</li><li class="ql-align-justify">Erotic Love: A passionate and intimate form of Love.</li><li class="ql-align-justify">Love of God: A divine, spiritual love</li></ol>

Complexities and Vulnerabilities of Human Love

Affection love, also known as storge, is the humblest and most widely diffused of loves, and it is the love in which our experience seems to differ least from that of the animals. It is characterized by a warm comfortableness, satisfaction in being together, and a lack of discrimination in its objects.

1. Affection

Affection can be felt for almost anyone, regardless of their appearance, intelligence, or other qualities. It is the least finicky and the broadest of natural loves.Affection is not proud and does not expect too much, turning a blind eye to faults and reviving easily after quarrels.It is a love that can unite those who are not naturally suited to each other, and it can enter into and color other loves, becoming the medium in which they operate.

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Affection is also the love that can make appreciations possible which, but for it, might never have existed.It is a love that can unite people who, if they had not found themselves put down by fate in the same household or community, would have had nothing to do with each other.It is a love that can open our eyes to goodness we could not have seen, or should not have appreciated without it.

Affection_3

However, it is important to note that Affection, by itself, left simply to follow its own bent, can darken and degrade human life.It is a love that can be present, causing unhappiness, and it has its own criteria, requiring its objects to be familiar.Affection is also the image used in Scripture when God is represented as our Father.

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Affection is a love that is both humble and powerful, capable of uniting and transforming other loves, and it plays a significant role in human relationships and the human experience.

Affection (conclusion)

Friendship love, as described by C.S. Lewis, is a unique and often undervalued form of love.It is characterized by a deep connection between individuals who share a common vision, activity, or interest.Unlike other forms of love, such as Affection or Eros, Friendship is not instinctive or biologically necessary, making it the least natural of loves.However, it is a love that can enrich and enhance our lives in profound ways.

2. Friendship

Friendship arises when individuals discover a shared taste, vision, or point of view, and it is not limited by physical attributes or social status.In a circle of true Friends, each person is valued for themselves, standing for nothing but their true selves.This love is essentially between individuals, and it is a voluntary nobility, where individuals have chosen each other based on a common ground.

Friendship_2

Friendship can also be a school of virtue, making good men better and bad men worse.It can lead to the exclusion of others, creating a sense of pride and exclusiveness within the circle of Friends.However, when approached with humility and a genuine appreciation for the unique qualities of each individual, Friendship can lead to a deep and robust form of Appreciative love.

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Friendship is unnecessary, like philosophy, art, or the universe itself, and it has no survival value. Yet, it is one of those things that give value to survival.It is a love that can unite those who are not naturally inclined to be together, broadening their minds and leading to the appreciation of goodness and intelligence in others.

Friendship (conclusion)

Erotic love (Greek: Eros) is romantic love, distinct from mere sexual desire. It encompasses emotional intimacy and affection between partners.

3.Erotic Love

All-Consuming: Lovers in Eros often focus intensely on each other, sometimes to the exclusion of the world around them.Transcends Physical Attraction: Though it involves physical desire, Eros also emphasizes emotional and spiritual connection.Idealization: Partners often see each other in an idealized light, which can distort reality.Irrelevant to Happiness: It doesn’t guarantee happiness and can even lead to profound suffering due to its intensity and unpredictability.

Characteristics of Eros

Idolatry: Partners can be tempted to place each other above everything, including God, leading to possessiveness and jealousy.Addiction:  The intensity can be addictive, pushing lovers to demand exclusivity or lose their identity in the relationship.

Dangers and Pitfalls

Unification: Eros brings two people closer, helping them understand the nature of unity and intimacy.Creativity: This love often leads to creative pursuits, such as poetry, art, or grand gestures meant to express affection.

Positive Aspects

Eros is a powerful and beautiful form of love that should be embraced with caution, always aligned with higher spiritual and moral values.

Eros (Conclusion)

Love of God (Greek: Agape) is the selfless, unconditional love that mirrors the love of God for humanity.It transcends natural loves (Affection, Friendship, and Eros) by focusing on giving without expecting anything in return.

4. Love of God

Selfless: It prioritizes the well-being and happiness of others over personal desires.Unconditional: Agape is given regardless of the recipient’s behavior or worthiness.Universal: It extends to all, even those who are difficult to love, including enemies.

Characteristics of Agape

Complements: Agape enhances other loves by preventing their excesses and self-centered tendencies.Overcomes Idolatry: It aligns natural loves under the will of God, preventing them from becoming idolatrous.Unifying: It binds all forms of love together, creating harmony and balance.

Relation to Other Loves

Paternalism: A distorted form can become patronizing, treating others as incapable of self-care.Hypocrisy: It must be genuine, not used as a mask for ulterior motives or self-interest.

Dangers and Misunderstandings

Biblical: The love Jesus Christ preached and practiced, such as caring for the marginalized and forgiving enemies.Daily Life: Helping others without expecting gratitude or recognition, offering kindness even when inconvenient.

Examples of Agape

Agape is the highest form of love and encompasses all others by focusing on unconditional kindness and generosity.According to Lewis, <ul><li class="ql-align-justify">without Agape, the other loves can become self-destructive;</li><li class="ql-align-justify"> but when guided by Agape, they find their truest expression.</li></ul>

Agape (Conclusion)

"The Four Loves" by C.S. Lewis explores the nature of love, including the love between parents and children, love between friends, romantic love, and the love of God. It delves into the complexities, challenges, and rewards of different types of love, offering insights and reflections on the subject

In this candid, wise and warmly personal book, C.S. Lewis describes the four basic kinds of human love -- affection, friendship, erotic love, and the love of God. He explores the possibilities and problems of the love between parents and children; the love of men for other men and women for women; the love of men and women for each other; and the love of God that enriches all love. Lewis also explores the questions of sex, possessiveness, jealousy, pride, false sentimentality, good and bad manners in loving, and the need for more laughter between lovers. There are risks that accompany the rewards of love, the author cautions, but he recommends taking them, since "hell is the only place outside of heaven where we can be safe from the dangers of love."--Back cover.

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Clive Staples Lewis

The Four Loves

They are afraid to fly not because they don't have wings but because they are afraid to fall .

"Each of us is held back by fears of failure or uncertainty, preventing us from reaching our full potential. We're often afraid to take the first step towards our dreams, thinking 'what if I fail?' or 'what if it doesn't work out?' So we hold ourselves back, afraid to try. But if we don't take that first step, how can we expect to climb the whole staircase?"

THE FIRST STEP-THE HARDEST STEP

Faith is taking the first step even when you don't see the whole staircase.

Let's learn to face our fears and trust in our own strength and resilience. We might just surprise ourselves with how high we can soar!"

<ul><li>Acknowledge your fear: Recognizing that you have a fear of failure is the first step to overcoming it.</li><li>Identify your fears: Consider what you are afraid of, why, and how likely the negative outcomes are to happen. How would they affect you and your life? How do you feel about yourself when you think about failing?</li><li>Reframe failure: See failure as a learning opportunity, rather than a personal flaw or a sign of incompetence.</li></ul>

Tips To Get Rid Of Fear Of Failure

<ul><li>Give yourself permission to fail: Plan to fail.</li><li>Focus on what you can control: Consider the worst-case scenario and have a contingency plan.</li><li>Seek support: You don't have to face your fears alone. Find support and inspiration from others who share your interests, goals, and challenges.</li></ul>

Share your thoughts on what holds you back from reaching your full potential. Lets inspire each other to spread our wings and fly!

Fear of Falling vs Wings of Courage 

“the present moment is all you ever have.”

Access your inner self and experience the unity of "Being" through stillness of mind. No religion owns this idea, it's an open concept that encompasses the "eternal, ever-present One Life." Being lies at the heart of your essence and can be felt when you are fully present, living in the Now.

Key Concepts:
<ul>
 <li>Stillness of mind</li>
 <li>Unity of "Being"</li>
 <li>Open concept</li>
 <li>"One Life"</li>
 <li>Living in the Now</li>
</ul>

The Power of Being

“You can improve your life situation, but you cannot improve your life…It is already whole, complete, perfect.”

The constant thoughts in your mind can prevent you from truly experiencing the moment. Thinking does not mean being. 
 Engaging in tasks like planning, worrying, judging, and explaining creates tension and makes it seem like you are separate from everything else. This mental activity can lead to a false sense of loneliness and separation from the world. It's crucial to become aware of this to fully connect with reality and the present moment. 🧘‍♂️

Disconnecting thoughts from reality

“When you are present, when your attention is fully and intensely in the Now, Being can be felt, but it can never be understood mentally.”

The Power of Living in the Now 🌞
Our ego often distracts us with memories of the past and worries for the future, but true inner peace can only be found in the present moment. Take control of your thoughts, quiet your mind, and discover the wellspring of creativity and innovation within yourself. 🚀 
<ul>
 <li>Live in the moment and enjoy life's little joys 🌼 </li>
 <li>Don't let your past or future worries consume you 💭</li>
 <li>Embrace your inner stillness for clarity and innovative ideas 💡</li>
</ul>

The Power of Living in the Now 🌞

“The art of inner-body awareness will develop into a completely new way of living, a state of permanent connectedness with Being, and will add a depth to your life that you have never known before.”

Life is made up of moments, and the most important one is Now. Your mind can trick you into dwelling on the past or imagining the future, but Now is where true freedom and peace reside. Leave the mind behind, and focus on Now to fully experience life.
Why should you care about Now?
<ul>
 <li>The past is a memory, and the future is an illusion, only Now is real.</li>
 <li>The egoic mind wastes time and energy dwelling on the past or anticipating the future.</li>
 <li>By living in the present, you unlock true Being, free from the limitations of the mind.</li>
</ul>

The Power of Living in the Present Moment

Life’s journey is not just about achieving goals, it’s also about being present in the moment and embracing our inner being. If we let negativity consume us, it can hinder our overall happiness.
Ways to Combat Negativity:
<ol>
 <li>Address the situation at hand.</li>
 <li>Release any pain associated with it.</li>
</ol>
Remember, both inner and outer purposes are important and should not conflict with each other. Embrace the present and strive for personal growth simultaneously 🌞

The Purpose of Life

“When you live in complete acceptance of what is – which is the only sane way to live – there is no ‘good’ or ‘bad’ in your life anymore. There is only a higher good – which includes the ‘bad’.”

Focusing on the present moment can offer glimpses of the Unmanifested. It is found in stillness, in the gaps between sounds, and in the space between objects.
<ul>
 <li>The Unmanifested is found in stillness.</li>
 <li>The Unmanifested is in between sounds.</li>
 <li>The Unmanifested is in the space between objects.</li>
</ul>
✨ The Unmanifested: the no-thing between objects! ✨

Glimpsing the Unmanifested

Love can feel perfect, but relationships are not without friction. Until you let go of the ego and live in the Now, your relationships will never truly thrive.
Here's why:
<ol>
 <li>The ego causes dysfunction in relationships.</li>
 <li>Love and hate are interconnected.</li>
 <li>You can't avoid negative periods in relationships.</li>
</ol>
Eliminating your ego and living in the present can greatly improve your relationships. 🌟🧘‍♀️☮️

Mastering Relationships: Living in the Present

The concept of surrender is often misunderstood. It is not about showing weakness or giving up, but instead about accepting the present moment as it is without any labels or judgment. It's about acknowledging what is and yielding to the reality of Now. So let go of your inner resistance and fully embrace the power of acceptance 🌟.

Key takeaways:
<ul>
 <li>Surrender does not equal defeat or weakness.</li>
 <li>Accept the present moment without judgment or labels.</li>
 <li>Yield to the reality of Now.</li>
 <li>Embrace the power of acceptance 🌟.</li>
</ul>

Understanding the Power of Acceptance

<ul>
 <li>The "Power of Now" comes from being completely present in the moment and freeing your consciousness from mental noise.</li>
 <li>You can access a new dimension of consciousness by non-judgmentally observing your thoughts, emotions, and fears.</li>
 <li>Your thoughts - the ceaseless self-talk streaming through your mind - block the experience of being. "Watch the Thinker," the voice in your head, which abhors silence.</li>
 <li>Instead of focusing on your life situation, pay attention to the only "real" thing - what is true in this moment.</li>
 <li>Emotions are thoughts that reverberate throughout the body.</li>
</ul>

Summary

<ul>
 <li>The “egoic” mind exists in the past and future but cannot function in the Now.</li>
 <li>The “pain-body” is the emotional residue that negative experiences leave behind.</li>
 <li>Don’t let your outer purpose overshadow your inner purpose: to partake in the “light of Being.”</li>
 <li>In an enlightened relationship, you’re open to love and you accept your partner unconditionally.</li>
</ul>
 
<ul>
 <li>Spiritual surrender calls for accepting what is and letting go of inner resistance.</li>
</ul>

Summary (Continued)

First published in 1999, Eckhart Tolle’s spiritual self-help book became – with a little help from Oprah Winfrey – a number one New York Times bestseller and cultural phenomenon

To make the journey into the Now we will need to leave our analytical mind and its false created self, the ego, behind. From the very first page of Eckhart Tolle's extraordinary book, we move rapidly into a significantly higher altitude where we breathe a lighter air. We become connected to the indestructible essence of our Being, “The eternal, ever present One Life beyond the myriad forms of life that are subject to birth and death.” Although the journey is challenging, Eckhart Tolle uses simple language and an easy question and answer format to guide us. A word of mouth phenomenon since its first publication, The Power of Now is one of those rare books with the power to create an experience in readers, one that can radically change their lives for the better.

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Eckhart Tolle is a teacher, author, and entrepreneur. He is a German-born resident of Canada best known as the author of The Power of Now and A New Earth: Awakening to Your Life's Purpose. Tolle does not identify with any specific religion, but he has been influenced by multiple spiritual works.

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When we thought of doing something or visiting a new place or taking a decision or making a next moveWe often end up in daunting question, What if it goes wrong ?We think all possibilities for ending up in negative way and mess our mind.

The Question ⁉️

May be in some of the rare cases it can goes in different direction than we expected.But not all the things will end up in a mess.So we should make our mind to face the situation whatever happens atleast it should start from our mind with a small optimistic thinking. 🌀 If we change the way we look at things, the things we look will change 🌀

Wear A Positive Lens

🌞What if it goes right ?🌞

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