we are disappointed when people do not respond to our expectations, and we complain and get angry when it is a close relative like our spouse.

Why We Got Disappointed ☹️

it's easily filled with complaints, grudges, and anger towards others

Its always Easy To Complain

People deeply intimidated by other people's success and begin to copy, criticize, or even abuse to gain attention, corrupting their own heart and vision as they no longer know why you were born.

We Forget Our Own Existence

Grudge is like a constipated stomach carrying nothing more than shit for other people thinking it can harm anyone else but in truth you are the only one carrying the pressure without reason. I know its difficult but You should thank these people from heart who created troubles for you or laughed at your failires and let go any grudge so you can carry on your journey in life.

Try To Let Go Grudges

We always conclude that if we forgive a person it means we are favoring them, no it’s not! we are not favoring them for their deeds we are making our self free from the baggage of grudge.

Do Yourself A Favor And Forgive Others

<UL><LI>Date
					 December 22, 2021
				</LI></UL>Forgiveness…. the most difficult task for a human being.We do a lot of remedies, rituals and other different things to improve ourselves &amp; our life style but sometimes what we don’t want to do is the simplest remedy which is the most required and creating blockages in to our soul’s progression is – forgiveness. So let us start with this cycle- We expect people to behave in a certain manner as we have pre conceived some actions and reactions of human in our brain and when we don’t find response of people according to our convenience we felt disappointed and in case of near and dear one’s we complain and get angry on them.&nbsp; We get angry on people when we expect something better for them – Imagine you are driving on road and another car driver cut through lane and as a reaction you will either abuse or honk to the car, this is an indication that you expected him to drive properly for his safety and safety of another people on road but the way your brain reacts to get the message quickly is by using strong language as your brain has pre fixed notion that using strong language and gestures gets more quick reaction but what brain has not understood is that outcome is never positive in this manner. <img src="https://i0.wp.com/lunarastro.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/12/Add-a-heading-2.png?resize=414%2C346&amp;is-pending-load=1#038;ssl=1" alt="" width="414" height="414" srcset="data:image/gif;base64, https://lunarastro.com/art-of-forgiveness-nachiketa-dhyan/R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7"> The more we love people, more are the expectations like you expect more from your spouse rather as compare to any other person as the bondage is more- As chankaya says&nbsp; “Keep love in relationships not boundations ” as when boundations takes over it becomes burden for everyone. Heart is the one place where there is very little room – where love and anger can’t stay together, where lust and love will not be able to manage at once and it is easily filled with complaints, grudges and anger towards other people like there are people whenever they will talk about anyone from Actor to Astrologer nothing good comes out of their mouth and only able to see bad in everyone, What they are showing is their own incompetency, insecurity and compensating for their own failures, Look closely at these people that why they are criticizing anyone -you will find they are failure in their personal life, hold grudges for very close relations and that frustration is coming out as this on other people to whom they don’t know properly. <img src="https://i0.wp.com/lunarastro.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/12/Add-a-heading-3.png?resize=404%2C338&amp;is-pending-load=1#038;ssl=1" alt="" width="404" height="404" srcset="data:image/gif;base64, https://lunarastro.com/art-of-forgiveness-nachiketa-dhyan/R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7"> They are deeply intimated by success of other people and either start to copy them and criticize them or even start abusing to get attention and in this process your own heart and vision is corrupted as now you don’t even know why you are born? We all carry some weight of grudges against some other people because we wanted them to be best, we wanted them to be like they were in our expectations but when that doesn’t happen we get angry on them and this grudge is like a constipated stomach carrying nothing more than shit for other people thinking it can harm anyone else but in truth you are the only one carrying the pressure without reason. It is difficult to forgive people who have done bad for you, It is difficult to forgive people who have created troubles for you, laughed at your failures but imagine if all these people were not there, how could you improve in life, they were in fact your true friends who helped you move up in life, You should thank these people from heart and let go any grudge so you can carry on your journey in life. <img src="https://i0.wp.com/lunarastro.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/12/Make-your-mental-health-a-priority-1080-x-1080-px.png?resize=401%2C401&amp;is-pending-load=1#038;ssl=1" alt="" width="401" height="401" srcset="data:image/gif;base64, https://lunarastro.com/art-of-forgiveness-nachiketa-dhyan/R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7"> We always conclude that if we forgive a person it means we are favoring them, no it’s not! we are not favoring them for their deeds we are making our self free from the baggage of grudge. This is the remedy of Forgiveness you should follow- hold a fruit, money or water or anything which can take that energy from your body, sit in a silent zone, take at least 6 deep breaths so you can go to your inner core where you have stored all this pain and disappointment for other people. Now start by forgiving each person who has given you pain in life – all these were your past life relations who came to get trouble you in some way or the other weather it was your boss, spouse or friends. You pray for their well being so they can carry their journey in life and you can do yours. Give this fruit to any animal , water to plant and money to temple or sweeper depending on rashi in 6th house, One thing I have noticed is whatever fruit you hold depending on your energy the fruit turns black within 1-2 hours only,&nbsp; the plant dries up as your negative energy is going out, even to consume this money you need punya. <img src="https://i0.wp.com/lunarastro.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/12/I-forgive-you-all-so-i-can-live-in-peace.png?resize=488%2C275&amp;is-pending-load=1#038;ssl=1" alt="" width="488" height="488" srcset="data:image/gif;base64, https://lunarastro.com/art-of-forgiveness-nachiketa-dhyan/R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7"> This is one of the first remedy you should perform before anything else in life to progress in life- Do it regularly if you want to move up in life. There is an inspiring tale with inside the Kath Upanishad approximately a touch boy named Nachiketa. He was the son of Udalak rishi. Once Udalak prepared a yagna to thrill the deities. It changed into common place in the ones days to donate cows to Brahmins on the give up of the yagna. Udalak changed into a miser and he donated vintage and susceptible cows to the Brahmins. None of the cows yielded any milk. This disturbed Nachiketa. He requested his father approximately it, “Father, to whom could you supply me in charity?” This made his father very angry, however he determined now no longer to mention whatever. When Nachiketa repeated the question, Udalak misplaced his mood and said, “I come up with to Yama.” Yama is the king of Yamapuri-hell. Hearing this Nachiketa went to Yama’s state. It changed intohis father’s command. It could now no longer be right for him to disobey his father. ‘I must fulfil his want,’ idea Nachiketa, despite the fact that it approaches leaving domestic. However, his father found out his mistake and attempted to prevent him however Nachiketa did now no longer prevent. He reached Yama’s state and changed into instructed with the aid of using Yama’s guards that he had long gone out for 3 days. Nachiketa determined to attend at his doorstep until he lower back. He waited for 3 days. No meals, no water. Three fasts! Yama lower back at the fourth day and noticed little Nachiketa at his doorstep. He felt pained for preserving a Brahmin ready without welcoming him, without meals and water. It changed into a sin now no longer to welcome an atithi -visitor on the doorstep. He scolded his spouse Yami for now no longer welcoming him. Both rushed across the residence to serve Nachiketa. One went to fetch water. The different added a mat for him to take a seat down on. Yama nevertheless did now no longersense absolutely glad in serving him. So, he instructed Nachiketa, ” Dear child, I even have angry you with the aid of using preserving you anticipating 3 days. To wash my sin, I request you to invite for 3 boons.” Nachiketa declared, “My first want is, after I go back domestic might also additionally my father welcome me lovingly. My 2nd want is to provide me the expertise with the aid of using which I may be worth of residing withinside the heavens. My 3rd and closing want is to provide me Atmagnam -expertise of the atma. ” Yama granted the primary boons straight away and attempted to persuade Nachiketa to surrender his 3rd want. He supplied him gold, pearls, coins, horses’ elephants or even the happiness of Swarg -heaven instead. “No, I do now no longer want for whatever else,” spoke back Nachiketa firmly. Finally, Yama granted him the 3rd&nbsp; boon too, and Nachiketa changed into enlightened with the expertise of the atma. Nachiketa conjures up us to be type to all creatures, to admire one’s parents, to be robust willed to do something one has determined, even with inside the face of problems and limitations and to search for everlasting happiness.Wisdom of the story:-1. The Soul is immortal. It came now no longer born, nor does it die. It did now no longer pop out of commodity, neither did commodity got then out of it. Indeed, if this frame is destroyed, the soul is not always destroyed. Lower than the lowest and large than the largest, the soul is abiding in all bodies. Without studying of the Shashtras or scriptures mastering cannot realise soul’s importance. native need to distinguish the soul from the frame, that is the seed of desire. Universe reveals the secrets to seekers only beyond the bodily experiences. The consent of the sensible is to understand this soul only.2. Greater than the person soul is the keeping high- quality knowledge, the seed of the whole thing with inside the secrets of universe, nonetheless further is the Ultimate Person than whom there may be not anything further. He’s the purpose of our aspiration. Once That (Supreme Self) is plant out, loss of life loses all its demons, and the only who has plant out turns into immortal. The course to recognition is complicated and delicate. Incapability to realize univers’s consequences in a native is being netted with inside the loop of rebirth. Understanding the soul ends in moksha. 3. Forgiveness is the only key to uplift our consciousness towards the light of almighty to nullify our bodily &amp; karmic relationships.So, let’s begin with acceptance &amp; surrenderness and experience true magic of upliftment.<UL><LI>Share:</LI></UL><img alt="" src="https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/a/AATXAJxmDSN8iUo3pbDcYTlEzK8dXZ0mfz-ObvzZO433=s96-c?is-pending-load=1" height="110" width="110" srcset="data:image/gif;base64, https://lunarastro.com/art-of-forgiveness-nachiketa-dhyan/R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7">

Forgiveness.... the most difficult task for a human being. We do a lot of remedies, rituals and other different things to improve ourselves & our life style but sometimes what we don't want to do is the simplest remedy which is the most required and creating blockages in to our soul's progression is - forgiveness.

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<ul><li>Date December 22, 2021 </li> </ul>

Forgiveness…. the most difficult task for a human being.

We do a lot of remedies, rituals and other different things to improve ourselves & our life style but sometimes what we don’t want to do is the simplest remedy which is the most required and creating blockages in to our soul’s progression is – forgiveness . So let us start with this cycle- We expect people to behave in a certain manner as we have pre conceived some actions and reactions of human in our brain and when we don’t find response of people according to our convenience we felt disappointed and in case of near and dear one’s we complain and get angry on them.  We get angry on people when we expect something better for them – Imagine you are driving on road and another car driver cut through lane and as a reaction you will either abuse or honk to the car, this is an indication that you expected him to drive properly for his safety and safety of another people on road but the way your brain reacts to get the message quickly is by using strong language as your brain has pre fixed notion that using strong language and gestures gets more quick reaction but what brain has not understood is that outcome is never positive in this manner.

The more we love people, more are the expectations like you expect more from your spouse rather as compare to any other person as the bondage is more- As chankaya says  “Keep love in relationships not boundations ” as when boundations takes over it becomes burden for everyone.

Heart is the one place where there is very little room – where love and anger can’t stay together, where lust and love will not be able to manage at once and it is easily filled with complaints, grudges and anger towards other people like there are people whenever they will talk about anyone from Actor to Astrologer nothing good comes out of their mouth and only able to see bad in everyone, What they are showing is their own incompetency, insecurity and compensating for their own failures, Look closely at these people that why they are criticizing anyone -you will find they are failure in their personal life, hold grudges for very close relations and that frustration is coming out as this on other people to whom they don’t know properly.

They are deeply intimated by success of other people and either start to copy them and criticize them or even start abusing to get attention and in this process your own heart and vision is corrupted as now you don’t even know why you are born? We all carry some weight of grudges against some other people because we wanted them to be best, we wanted them to be like they were in our expectations but when that doesn’t happen we get angry on them and this grudge is like a constipated stomach carrying nothing more than shit for other people thinking it can harm anyone else but in truth you are the only one carrying the pressure without reason. It is difficult to forgive people who have done bad for you, It is difficult to forgive people who have created troubles for you, laughed at your failures but imagine if all these people were not there, how could you improve in life, they were in fact your true friends who helped you move up in life, You should thank these people from heart and let go any grudge so you can carry on your journey in life.

We always conclude that if we forgive a person it means we are favoring them, no it’s not! we are not favoring them for their deeds we are making our self free from the baggage of grudge. This is the remedy of Forgiveness you should follow- hold a fruit, money or water or anything which can take that energy from your body, sit in a silent zone, take at least 6 deep breaths so you can go to your inner core where you have stored all this pain and disappointment for other people. Now start by forgiving each person who has given you pain in life – all these were your past life relations who came to get trouble you in some way or the other weather it was your boss, spouse or friends. You pray for their well being so they can carry their journey in life and you can do yours. Give this fruit to any animal , water to plant and money to temple or sweeper depending on rashi in 6th house, One thing I have noticed is whatever fruit you hold depending on your energy the fruit turns black within 1-2 hours only,  the plant dries up as your negative energy is going out, even to consume this money you need punya.

This is one of the first remedy you should perform before anything else in life to progress in life- Do it regularly if you want to move up in life.

There is an inspiring tale with inside the Kath Upanishad approximately a touch boy named Nachiketa. He was the son of Udalak rishi. Once Udalak prepared a yagna to thrill the deities. It changed into common place in the ones days to donate cows to Brahmins on the give up of the yagna. Udalak changed into a miser and he donated vintage and susceptible cows to the Brahmins. None of the cows yielded any milk. This disturbed Nachiketa. He requested his father approximately it, “Father, to whom could you supply me in charity?” This made his father very angry, however he determined now no longer to mention whatever. When Nachiketa repeated the question, Udalak misplaced his mood and said, “I come up with to Yama.” Yama is the king of Yamapuri-hell. Hearing this Nachiketa went to Yama’s state. It changed intohis father’s command. It could now no longer be right for him to disobey his father. ‘I must fulfil his want,’ idea Nachiketa, despite the fact that it approaches leaving domestic. However, his father found out his mistake and attempted to prevent him however Nachiketa did now no longer prevent. He reached Yama’s state and changed into instructed with the aid of using Yama’s guards that he had long gone out for 3 days. Nachiketa determined to attend at his doorstep until he lower back. He waited for 3 days. No meals, no water. Three fasts! Yama lower back at the fourth day and noticed little Nachiketa at his doorstep. He felt pained for preserving a Brahmin ready without welcoming him, without meals and water. It changed into a sin now no longer to welcome an atithi -visitor on the doorstep. He scolded his spouse Yami for now no longer welcoming him. Both rushed across the residence to serve Nachiketa. One went to fetch water. The different added a mat for him to take a seat down on. Yama nevertheless did now no longersense absolutely glad in serving him. So, he instructed Nachiketa, ” Dear child, I even have angry you with the aid of using preserving you anticipating 3 days. To wash my sin, I request you to invite for 3 boons.” Nachiketa declared, “My first want is, after I go back domestic might also additionally my father welcome me lovingly. My 2nd want is to provide me the expertise with the aid of using which I may be worth of residing withinside the heavens. My 3rd and closing want is to provide me Atmagnam -expertise of the atma. ” Yama granted the primary boons straight away and attempted to persuade Nachiketa to surrender his 3rd want. He supplied him gold, pearls, coins, horses’ elephants or even the happiness of Swarg -heaven instead. “No, I do now no longer want for whatever else,” spoke back Nachiketa firmly. Finally, Yama granted him the 3rd  boon too, and Nachiketa changed into enlightened with the expertise of the atma. Nachiketa conjures up us to be type to all creatures, to admire one’s parents, to be robust willed to do something one has determined, even with inside the face of problems and limitations and to search for everlasting happiness.

1. The Soul is immortal. It came now no longer born, nor does it die. It did now no longer pop out of commodity, neither did commodity got then out of it. Indeed, if this frame is destroyed, the soul is not always destroyed. Lower than the lowest and large than the largest, the soul is abiding in all bodies. Without studying of the Shashtras or scriptures mastering cannot realise soul’s importance. native need to distinguish the soul from the frame, that is the seed of desire. Universe reveals the secrets to seekers only beyond the bodily experiences. The consent of the sensible is to understand this soul only.

2. Greater than the person soul is the keeping high- quality knowledge, the seed of the whole thing with inside the secrets of universe, nonetheless further is the Ultimate Person than whom there may be not anything further. He’s the purpose of our aspiration. Once That (Supreme Self) is plant out, loss of life loses all its demons, and the only who has plant out turns into immortal. The course to recognition is complicated and delicate. Incapability to realize univers’s consequences in a native is being netted with inside the loop of rebirth. Understanding the soul ends in moksha. 3. Forgiveness is the only key to uplift our consciousness towards the light of almighty to nullify our bodily & karmic relationships.

So, let’s begin with acceptance & surrenderness and experience true magic of upliftment.

Art of Forgiveness

Why We Got Disappointed ☹️

Its always Easy To Complain

We Forget Our Own Existence

Try To Let Go Grudges

Do Yourself A Favor And Forgive Others

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