Service To Self vs Others

Being in service is a strive because of the balance, or specifically the distinction, between service to self and service to others. They may have similar origins but have different energetic mechanisms and therefore different practices. Service to self matures within and harnesses the energy provided through self love, and may be extended to others, but definitely doesnt require or rely on them. Its an unlimited source and therefore doesn't depend on others nor does it deplete them or you.

On the other hand, service to others actually requires another to take place, but that does not mean holding space and being a spiritual doormat. It requires a level of humbleness that creates a bond rooted in both giving and receiving, creatively and honestly, to/from a fellow human being, and therefore is limited by the boundries of engagnent. Similar as the energetic exchange between student and teacher, or parent and child; it goes through phases, cycles and an exchange in roles.

Through my years of practice i came to realise self love is boundless, yet love towards others requires a dynamic... Giving 'freely' attracts takers and abusers, and therefore should be accompanied by the boundaries that govern engagments. In simpler terms there are traits and qualities that act as prerequisites to be able to achieve that exchange. Reciprocity requires a sense of belonging under a shared ethos or moral value. Giving requires a sense of joy and appreciation towards others. Receiving requires a sense of humbleness and gratitude that allows the cycle of exchange to continue.