The factors of disgrace and humiliation

It is clear that when a person talks to a doctor about his pain and asks him for a cure, or tells a judge about the injustice that has happened to him and asks for justice, or talks to a friend about his trouble in order to get a loan, he has not done anything wrong, he was just looking to get rid of those problems.

But telling the problems with those who do not have any ability to solve them, in the end, it causes humans to be humiliated.

In such cases, a person should be self-controlled and not complain.

The meaning of "...allows his tongue to overpower his soul " is to get out of the control of reason and thought and say whatever comes to mind.

It is obvious that the words that do not originate from thought, reason and piety in many cases create dangers that humans are unable to compensate for and sometimes cause the resentment of honorable people and cause differences among people. A wise person should put his tongue at the disposal of his intellect, not that his intellect is at the disposal of the tongue, the first is a source of happiness and the second is a source of humiliation.