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WILL GUIDARA

The best friendships are when each show up with a glass full of water and you are pouring your water in each other glass.

WILL GUIDARA

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Ask Yourself

”Why do I like my friends?”

“How could I feel deep trust and feel safe?”

Beyond the obvious, sharing values, having fun together etc.

What is THE criteria for you to select a friendship?

For Christina that is “Energy” and she asks herself whether she feels reenergised and refuelled?

For Will that is “Growing Ambition”, whether that is professional, of service or personal.

What is yours?

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Love Definition

Simon Sinek’s favourite “love” definition is :

“Love is giving the power to someone to destroy you and knowing they won’t use it.

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Reduce Trivialization

Life is full of many “highs” as we pursue dopamine and adrenaline in all their forms.

However don’t mistake “normal” moments as “lows”!

Restore the appreciation of small things and pursue oxytocin and serotonin, the “love” chemicals, that they take longer to pursue as they build over time.

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Generate Altrusim

Make LIFE happen : every occasion is an opportunity to make a moment special!

Draw a line of what you are willing to give to yourself and a second one of you are willing to give to others.

Move that second line forward and give more to others. It will give people a little bit more permission to give more back or maybe challenges in them that they can give and generate altruism.

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Saying YES Too Much

A dangerous thing in life is say “Yes” to too many people.

The best way to continue serve others may be to pause and say “Yes” to yourself more.

Instead of saying YES to the dress, say YES to the less.

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Final Takeaway

Make friend with people that help you pursue.

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IDEAS CURATED BY

alexcost89

« You are free to choose, but you are not free to alter the consequences of your decisions. » Ezra Taft Benson

CURATOR'S NOTE

I am finding that “Optimism” is fuelling my life. Simon Sinek is among the first optimists I bumped into and I love taking about his work!

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