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Imagine this, you are walking about in a busy market area, you desperately need onions and other staples to prepare this bomb meal you want to surprise the whole family with. I approach you or rather another chapped looking fellow approaches you and says, "May I interest you with a bundle of carrots for only $71" Your jaw drops wide and politely decline but then he offer you a deal on shallots with 10 dollars a bundle. You walk home bewildered. With no money in your wallet, but with a bundle of shallots. Surprising isn't it?
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Robert B. Cialdini argues that, simply put, that asking someone a big favor will instill a sort of psychological pressure that otherwise compels the other person to perform the second task.
I decided to try it on my classmate Kylie. I really needed an eraser but she was known of being quite selfish with her stuff, so I asked, "May I borrow your question paper?" She looked at me passively and continued working on her exam. Then I asked, "May I borrow your pen?". "Don't you have eyes to see that I am using it?" She snapped. "Fine then, may I borrow your rubber," I finally asked.
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"Excuse me sir, Marcus is bothering me" And that is why I am writing this outside class whilst the others are still doing their exams. What am I going to tell my parents...anyway enough of me. I tried reasoning as to why I did not get expected results.
I did one thing wrong.
Turns out, if you ask for favor that is utterly unreasonable, the rejection-than-retreat strategy will not take effect. (Which is me asking for her question paper) Therefore, the strategy is start big but not too big then ask for a small favor.
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They help someone to ethically manipulate someone to get something, especially if they are in dire need of it
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