<p>So before you lash out at someone who has a different opinion– think. The ability to reason is what sets us apart, so we should do it more often. Set aside differences. Start learning about other points of view. Gather facts and make your own decisions. Then communicate ideas to solve problems instead of perpetuating or escalating them. Never resort to name calling or swearing. This just sets everything back even further. Try talking to the “other side.” And keep trying even if you get shut down.</p>

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This article is a continuation of our New Year’s Resolution suggestion to become better communicators. Are we talking to “the other side’ yet? Are we even trying? It’s unfortunate when we won’t communicate at all on some subjects. Some feel compelled to shut down conversation, because we simply “won’t change each other’s minds.” Discussion over. That is what goes on in some businesses and in our government today. That—and the fact that some people just want to undermine the “other side” –no matter what. Remember that leading a team and governing starts with all of us, and we need to be good examples. We need to hire/vote in people who want to work together—not against each other. You can hire someone who has the same basic beliefs as you, but if that person cannot communicate well and work with all others, nothing will happen. Progress gets undermined by a constant tug of war. 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Talk Like Spock– to improve your communication skills

<p><time>January 26, 2018 </time>by <span><a href="https://www.corporategames.com/author/cg_facility/"><span>Cynthia Shon </span> </a> </span> </p>

<p>When you “<strong>talk like Spock, </strong>” the iconic character from Star Trek, you are: </p>

<ol><li>Taking emotion out of the conversation. </li><li>Listening carefully and analytically to what others have to say—with an open mind. </li><li>Stating facts, not feelings. </li><li>Realizing that conflict can spur growth. </li><li>Coming to reasonable conclusions that are supported by facts. </li><li>Agreeing to work together to solve problems. </li><li>Treating others with respect even if you disagree. </li> </ol>

<p>Talk like Spock—who was good at listening carefully and saying few but very accurate words. This article is a continuation of our New Year’s Resolution suggestion to become better communicators. Are we talking to “the other side’ yet? Are we even trying? It’s unfortunate when we won’t communicate at all on some subjects. Some feel compelled to shut down conversation, because we simply “won’t change each other’s minds.” Discussion over. That is what goes on in some businesses and in our government today. That—and the fact that some people just want to undermine the “other side” –no matter what. Remember that leading a team and governing starts with all of us, and we need to be good examples. We need to hire/vote in people who want to work together—not against each other. You can hire someone who has the same basic beliefs as you, but if that person cannot communicate well and work with all others, nothing will happen. Progress gets undermined by a constant tug of war. Welcome problem solvers who are eager to listen to all ideas, not just their own. </p>

<p>Spock was half human and half Vulcan, which is why he would not let emotion take over reasoning. We are perhaps too human, acting on feelings and aligning ourselves only with like-minded people to the detriment of everyone. As nice and easy as it is to think that everything is just black and white; right or wrong, that is a simplistic view of a very complex society. </p>

<p>So before you lash out at someone who has a different opinion– think. The ability to reason is what sets us apart, so we should do it more often. Set aside differences. Start learning about other points of view. Gather facts and make your own decisions. Then communicate ideas to solve problems instead of perpetuating or escalating them. Never resort to name calling or swearing. This just sets everything back even further. Try talking to the “other side.” And keep trying even if you get shut down. </p>

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The Differences Between Virtual and In-Person Team Building Events

<p><time>January 19, 2021 </time>By <span><a href="https://www.corporategames.com/author/cg_facility/"><span>Cynthia Shon </span> </a> </span> </p>

Virtual Activities for Your Holiday Party

<p><time>December 10, 2020 </time>By <span><a href="https://www.corporategames.com/author/cg_facility/"><span>Cynthia Shon </span> </a> </span> </p>

Ideas to Help You and Your Team through this Crisis- During the Holidays

<p><time>December 2, 2020 </time>By <span><a href="https://www.corporategames.com/author/cg_facility/"><span>Cynthia Shon </span> </a> </span> </p>

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