How to Avoid Passing Anxiety on to Your Kids - Deepstash
How to Avoid Passing Anxiety on to Your Kids

How to Avoid Passing Anxiety on to Your Kids

Curated from: childmind.org

Ideas, facts & insights covering these topics:

6 ideas

ยท

3.36K reads

15

Explore the World's Best Ideas

Join today and uncover 100+ curated journeys from 50+ topics. Unlock access to our mobile app with extensive features.

Taking cues from you

When children witness a parent in a state of anxiety, they can become unsettled, because they take information about how to interpret situations from the parent.

If you notice your child shows anxious behaviors, don't punish yourself for it. Implement strategies to help ensure you do not pass your anxiety on to your kids.

182

706 reads

Learn stress management techniques

A big part of treatment for children with anxiety is to teach parents stress tolerance.

A mental health professional can help you work through methods of stress management for your specific needs.

170

695 reads

Model stress tolerance

You might learn strategies in therapy that you can impart to your child when she is feeling anxious.

Try to maintain a calm, neutral demeanor in front of your child, even if you are still trying to manage your anxiety. Children are quick to read facial expressions.

173

484 reads

Explain your anxiety

It's okay not to suppress your emotions constantly. Your children need to see how you cope with stress every now and then. Explain to your children why you behaved the way you did.

186

536 reads

Make a plan

Come up with ways to manage specific situations that trigger your stress. You may even speak to your child about it, but don't put the responsibility on your child to manage your anxiety. However, seeing you implement a plan to curb an anxious moment shows him how stress can be managed.

169

399 reads

Know when to disengage

If you know that a situation might cause you to stress, plan ahead to disengage from that situation so your children will not interpret it as unsafe.

If you feel you are becoming overwhelmed with anxiety in the presence of your child, try and take a break.

168

544 reads

IDEAS CURATED BY

graham_k

A little bit of narcissism never killed anybody, or has it?

Graham K.'s ideas are part of this journey:

The glorification of busy

Learn more about health with this collection

How to prioritize and simplify your life

The importance of rest and relaxation

The benefits of slowing down

Related collections

Read & Learn

20x Faster

without
deepstash

with
deepstash

with

deepstash

Personalized microlearning

โ€”

100+ Learning Journeys

โ€”

Access to 200,000+ ideas

โ€”

Access to the mobile app

โ€”

Unlimited idea saving

โ€”

โ€”

Unlimited history

โ€”

โ€”

Unlimited listening to ideas

โ€”

โ€”

Downloading & offline access

โ€”

โ€”

Supercharge your mind with one idea per day

Enter your email and spend 1 minute every day to learn something new.

Email

I agree to receive email updates