Martha Graham on the Hidden Danger of Comparing Yourself to Others
“There is a vitality, a life force, an energy, a quickening that is translated through you into action, and because there is only one of you in all of time, this expression is unique. And if you block it, it will never exist through any other medium and it will be lost. The world will not have it. It is not your business to determine how good it is nor how valuable nor how it compares with other expressions. It is your business to keep it yours clearly and directly, to keep the channel open.”
“I thought this was a good article. Why don't people seem to enjoy it?” Or, I'll feel like I wrote something average only to see it become the most popular post of the month. Regardless of the outcome, we are often terrible judges of our own work.
Martha Graham's advice that not only are you a bad judge of your own work, it is not your job to judge your own work.
It is not your place to compare it to others. It is not your responsibility to figure out how valuable it is or how useful it can be.
It is not your job to tell yourself, “No.”
It doesn't make a difference what the person next to you writes down for his answer. This is your race to run.
It's your answer to create. How your paper compares to someone else's is not the point. The point is to fill the paper with your work.
The same can be said of your work today. No matter what you spend your days doing, every morning you wake up and have a blank piece of paper to work with. You get to put your name at the top and fill it with your work.
If what you write on your paper doesn't meet someone else's expectations … it is no concern of yours.
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