Why we should have to feel sorry for unkind people so that we can forgive them easily? - Deepstash

Kindness is a part of being a human and It's necessary for our peace of mind because when we help other people genuinely without any expectation and praise, then we get a deep sense of happiness within us. That's when we feel the real happiness that we seek the whole of our life.

Kindness makes us realize that a little love and compassion make a huge difference in someone's life because of us and it also makes us a happy and better human. By practising kindness, we can also become a positive person which affects our life also in a positive way, If we practice the same without any expectation.


  • Unkind people, because of their past trauma, family pattern, and harsh childhood also become the same as their surroundings because of the lack of self-awareness. They can't do anything consciously, in fact, they don't even know in the first place what they do and how it affects others.
  • Unkind people can't able to understand and handle their emotions and feeling that is why they seek the target so that they can put up their frustration on other people. So, In real they just fight with their inner self through other people.


  • Unkind People don't have the mindset to see people and life optimistically. The reality of the mindset in which they live is full of inner doubt, negativity, hate, and many other low vibration thoughts and they seek the same in their outer reality. They think that how they seek other people is the only reality of other people even they don't even know them personally.
  • Unkind people can't able to connect with other people because they can't able to connect with themselves first, that is why they never able to find a meaningful relationship. That is why they feel lonely and start being harsh.


“When they treat you unkind and attempt to ruin your day,

Stop, pray and walk away"

― Charmaine J. Forde

“Most unkind people usually have low self-esteem”

― Charmaine J. Forde


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