How to gain Confidence in yourself

When a person begins to have self-confidence, they begin to feel positive changes in their life, even in the most difficult circumstances. What seems worse for other people, seems manageable for the person, who has self-confidence.

Don’t wait until everything is just right. It will never be perfect. There will always be challenges, obstacles, and less than perfect conditions. So what. Get started now. With each step you take, you will grow stronger and stronger, more and more skilled, more and more self-confident, and more and more successful. 

    — Mark Victor Hansen

• Accept yourselves the way you are. Understand that you are enough, you have to prove yourself to yourself first. Accept and respect how you look, how you speak and how you behave etc. Only then you can able to improve yourself. Acceptance is the first step to improve ourselves and gain self-confidence.
• When It comes to accept your flaws and mistake, positively embrace them, accept them, and take responsibility for your mistake without judging yourself. Mistakes help us ingrown further in life. If we learn from them instead of hiding them.

• Having enough patience and hope that things will have been going to be fine shortly. Never let your current emotions take over your mind.
• Starts Reading books about self-esteem, motivational books which makes your mind positive and strong. Whatever you told your subconscious mind, It works like that also. So, feed it with positive information to the extent possible.
• Spend time with like-minded people who understand you, motivates you to grow further in life. Who feels positive and safe for you to open up in front of them.

• Do something new daily, for which you were not used to in the past. It helps you to slowly leave your comfort zone and take calculated risks in your life. As told by the people, "No risk, no rewards"
• Spend some hours with yourself in solitude, so that you can be honest with yourself. Being busy all the time means to avoid facing yourself. Which, also stops us to grow further and having confidence in ourselves.
• Always be ready to face uncomfortable situations so that you can learn something new from them. Running away is not a solution. It also says that "What you resist persists".

Believe in yourself! Have faith in your abilities! Without humble but reasonable confidence in your powers, you cannot be successful or happy. 

— Norman Vincent Peale

Last but not least, Be happy and content. Never doubt yourself and your inner feeling. It sounds difficult because sometimes gaining confidence in oneself means leaps of faith in the unknown after leaving our comfort zone, in which we were living for a very long time. Life is beautiful and precious and so you are.