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Over my career as a copywriter, Iāve interviewed dozens of top performers. Iāve been privileged to have genuine, deep 1-on-1 conversations with heads of multi-million dollar businesses. These are aggressively smart people, who make me feel humbled just by their presence.
Itās comical how different these people are from my peers. Many of my acquaintances feel extremely smart. They have zero achievements to back up their ego. Even when every piece of evidence shows that theyāre not so smart, they find a smart reason why the world is wrong and theyāre right.
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Thatās not how top performers think. Here are four things I noticed truly smart people never do.
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When you think about it, overthinking is just a state of inflated ego. You think that you can āthink upā an answer to your problem. You think that youāre smart enough to solve a problem just in your head.
Thatās not what smart people do. Smart people embrace what the author of The Black Swan calls the anti-library: a set of all the things we donāt know. Smart people know that the answers to their problems cannot be found in their head.
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Instead, they take immediate action. Theyāll sign contracts on an impulse and cut them off just as brutally. If they find something interesting, theyāll turn 140% of their energy to that thing alone, and then leave it as soon as they realize it didnāt work.
Hereās how to identify a pseudo-smart person: ask them what theyāve actually done in order to achieve their goals. If they start justifying their inaction, youāre dealing with a pseudo-intellectual.
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Instead, they lead with borderline honesty and directness.
Another thing that stands out with aggressively smart people is their directness and honesty.
Truly intelligent people value their time, and they value yours. Thatās why youāll seldom hear a smart person chit-chatting about their vacation for 30 minutes. They just donāt see the point.
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I think itās a sort of a filter. Itās not that smart people donāt enjoy being nice ā or that they donāt know how to be pleasant.
I think they do it to gauge your reaction. If you appreciate them being direct, they know theyāre dealing with another smart person. If you get confused and insulted by their directness ā theyāll instantly know youāre probably just trying to look smart.
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Instead, they often act on an impulse.
Intelligent people will sometimes act childishly, but do not mistake their free-willed behavior with aimlessness.
Many of the people Iāve interviewed explain their actions via seemingly arbitrary reasons. Theyāll say things ābecause I like itā or āit just feels good,ā which can make you think that they donāt know what theyāre doing.
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First of all, truly intelligent people always know what theyāre doing. So if they donāt go into a 30-minute lecture explaining to you why they did this or that, itās probably because they donāt see the point ā or donāt have the time.
But then, intelligence is more than just about intellect. Intelligence is about trusting your emotions, too. Smart people learn how to trust their inner signals in combination with external information.
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Pseudo-smart people, on the other hand, will usually have a super-smart reason why theyāre doing whatever it is what theyāre doing. Theyāll talk about markets, industries, news, latest research. Theyāll try to convince you that the entire world is behind them on their decision. And then theyāll sit on their butts for 2 months.
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Instead, they listen more than they talk.
Another hallmark of highly intelligent people is that theyāre rarely the centerpiece of the conversation. Youāll rarely hear them dominate over someoneā unless they have a reason to.
Partly itās because truly smart people realize how futile most conversations are. After years of trial and error, they come to find a truth that their words rarely lead to any tangible result. Instead, they focus on actions.
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Another reason is that theyāre good listeners. Aggressively smart people are smart for a reason ā theyāve had lots and lots of other aggressively smart people tell them things about life and business. To do that, theyāve learned to be good listeners.
Itās also an ego thing. If you know you can beat someone in a discussion, why not just let them talk? Whatās the point of proving what you already know and spend tons of energy in the process?
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Whenever you hear someone dominate a conversation ā beware, youāre most likely dealing with a pseudo-intellectual.
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