4.  Time is one of the greatest gifts we possess. When we share extra <a href="https://www.thehopeline.com/3-mindset-shifts-can-deepen-relationships/">time with a friend</a>, we are giving back to them that gift. No friendship can develop overnight. It takes time. A real friend will take that time.5. Keep their secrets.  Prove yourself to be a trustworthy person who will guard their secrets with your life. A good way to prove you are trustworthy is to be free to share some of your own secrets with your friend. King Solomon also said:  Friends come and friends go, but a true friend sticks by you like family.

Make time for your friend.

3. Take an interest in the details of your friend’s life by being a good listener. Don’t watch television or text while your friend is sharing something with you. Most times people need more than good advice, they need someone to listen to them as they talk through their feelings. Ask them what’s going on in their life and how they feel.

Listen to them

<ol><li>Be real.  People are turned off by those who are constantly trying to be someone they are not. We are most comfortable around others who are comfortable in their own skin. So just be yourself. Even though you aren’t perfect, the way you handle your strengths and faults with humility and confidence will give other people permission to be real and relaxed with you, as well. Real friends are relaxed around each other.</li></ol>

Become a good friend

2. Be honest.  Keep your promises and do what you say you’re going to do. Be reliable. Nobody wants to be friends with someone who lies. And lies always have a way of coming to the light. Also, friends will say the truth to one another, even when it’s hard. The wisest man in the Bible, King Solomon, said: Faithful are the wounds of a friend, but the kisses of an enemy are deceitful.

Honesty

6.  Everyone needs encouragement. Find specific ways to encourage your friend. Even in the depths of their struggles, show them what you see to be special about them and be willing to pick them up when they are depressed or feel like life is pressing in on them from all sides.7. Be loyal to your friend.  This is unconditional acceptance, even when your friend makes a mistake or really screws up. Be there when they are experiencing their highest highs and their lowest lows. Laugh with them, cry with them, don’t just talk about always being there.

Encourage your friend. 

8. Every relationship will hit a speed bump at one time or another. Show your friend you are willing to work through the <a href="https://www.thehopeline.com/what-to-do-if-youre-fighting-with-a-close-friend/">difficult times </a>of misunderstandings and hurt feelings. Sometimes friendships grow stronger through the difficult times. Don’t give up on your friend just because you are having difficulties.9. Watchout for your friend.  When you see your friend getting into a dangerous situation whether it’s with drugs or alcohol, or maybe even a destructive relationship, be bold enough to step in and protect your friend from the harm you see coming their way.

Be willing to work through conflict

How can you learn to be a great friend? What does it take? In order to have a great friend, you must first be one. Here are 9 tips to become a great friend.

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