Why You Self-Sabotage
For many people, the fear of rejection and the fear of engulfment keep them out of relationships.
These fears are based on false beliefs, such as success or failure defines my worth as a person.
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Where does self-sabotage come from?
The root of self-sabotage is fear.
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- Fear of Failure
- Fear of Success
- Fear of Judgement
- Fear of the Unknown
#5: The Law of Motivation
These false motives and others keep us from setting boundaries:
- Fear of loss of love, or abandonment.
- Fear of others’ anger.
- Fear of loneliness.
- Fear of losing the “good me” inside.
- Guilt
- Payback.
- Approval
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How You Self-Sabotage
Relationships:
- You keep yourself isolated.
- You make so many demands on your partner that he or she feels smothered and ends the relationship.
- You judge everyone you meet as not being good enough for you.
Work:
- You keep putting off lo...
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