Sharing an opposing viewpoint or two is more persuasive than sticking solely to your argument.
The people in your audience are more likely to be persuaded when they know you understand they could have misgivings. So talk about the other side of the argument--and then do your best to show why you're still right.
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When we talk about things that interest others, they are more likely to engage in conversations with us. Understand what they care about and communicate accordingly.
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When you're having an argument, there are two different views involved, and maybe two different realities. Instead of making it a black and white, right or wrong argument, try to ask genuine questions to help you understand what the other person is thinking.
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Dale Carnegie's How to Win Friends and Influence People is one of the most popular self-help books of all time. It has sold over 30 million copies. The key insight is that people are more likely to be persuaded by those who they like and respect:
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