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What Is Ghosting And Why Do People Do It?

What Is Ghosting And Why Do People Do It?

It is what it sounds like: suddenly disappearing (from a relationship); like a ghost.

The term is usually used in the context of a (burgeoning) romantic relationship, but it happens in (long term) friendships as well.

Emotionally stunted people do this because it's easy.

  • They fear confrontation and don't know what healthy communication looks like.
  • They have already mentally moved on and just stop talking to avoid the difficult conversation.
  • They lack empathy and understanding.

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Effects Of Being Ghosted

Effects Of Being Ghosted

Being ghosted is hurtful. No matter if you know someone for a short or a long period of time.

Loving someone or having deep real (even platonic) feelings for them, can make it intensely painful and will most likely leave long-term (mental)

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WHEN GHOSTING ÍS NEEDED

"If you are ending a relationship where you are worried that your partner will react in a violent or abusive way: Put your safety first and in the case of abuse, ghosting ...

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What To Do Instead Of Ghosting Someone?

What To Do Instead Of Ghosting Someone?

  1. Use direct communication, no matter how hard it is. It will provide a sense of closure and finality.
  2. Do it in person. This way both participants will feel heard.
  3. Do it at a respectable time. For instance, don't do it right be...

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CLAIRE POSTL

ABOUT THINKING GHOSTING IS A GOOD THING TO DO

"It’s a lie you are telling yourself—you are pretending like someone is not hurt when they really are."

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