The Art of the Open-Ended Question
One of the quickest routes to an awkward silence is asking questions that can be answered yes or no. By asking a more open-ended question – something requiring a more detailed answer – you encourage the other person to elaborate and offer more information. This makes them feel good about themselves – and about you, because you seem so interested in what they have to say.
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