The essential relates to the things that are most important to you from your life.Find them and then eliminate everything else. This simplifies things and leaves you with the space to focus on the essential.

Eliminate the non-essential

Start by becoming more aware of your negative self-talk: do a little tally sheet throughout the day, marking a tally each time you notice a negative thought. Soon you’ll recognize them, and you can squash them.

Develop Positive Thinking

<ul><li>Do something kind for someone each day. </li><li>Each time you interact with someone, try to be friendly and compassionate. </li><li>Try volunteering, to help those in need and taking the initiative to relieve suffering.</li></ul>

Kindness

<ul><li>You’ll be more effective with your tasks and get more done. Things like constantly switching tasks and being distracted by other “urgent” things really affect overall productivity.</li><li>You’ll be less stressed overall and (in my experience) happier throughout your day.</li></ul>

Single-tasking

“We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence then, is not an act, but a habit.”

The best routines come at the start and end of the day because they give a great start and finish to your day.Develop a routine for when you awake, for when you start working, for when you finish and leave work, and for your evening.

Daily routine

How exercise is improving your life:<ul><li>It makes you feel better about yourself and more confident.</li><li>It forces you to think positively, in order to sustain exercise.</li><li>It relieves stress and gives you time to think.</li><li>It helps with creativity. </li></ul>

Exercise

“Men’s natures are alike; it is their habits that separate them.”

This is the most powerful way of achieving your goals. When you try to take on many goals at once, you’re spreading thin your focus and energy — the two critical components for achieving a goal.

Focus on one goal

<ul><li>Focus on just one habit, for 30 days.</li><li>Put it on paper, together with your motivations, obstacles, and strategies for overcoming them.</li><li>Commit fully, preferably in a public way.</li><li>Track your progress.</li><li>Remain publicly accountable — report on your progress each day.</li><li>Have support for when you falter.</li><li>Reward small wins.</li><li>If you fail, figure out what went wrong, plan for it, and try again.</li></ul>

How to Develop Habits

"We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence then, is not an act, but a habit." - Aristotle If you could just pick one or two (or seven) habits to create in the next few months - habits that will have the most impact on your life - what would they be?

CONFUCIUS

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