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Attachment style

It describes the way you relate to others based on how you perceive yourself and the people around you.

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  • With a secure attachment style, you are comfortable with showing and accepting vulnerability.
  • You are self-aware: you know who you are are you are comfortable in your skin.
  • You don’t really worry about being lonely or if people accept you, and being connected to others is as ...

  • This could be you if you put your independence above all.
  • You tend to think less of others.
  • You carefully guard your emotions and try at all costs to keep away from rejection.
  • You're more likely to connect with people who express the anxious-preoccupied type because t...

  • This could be you if you often feel like you give more to relationships than you get back.
  • You worry people don't value you.
  • You tend to exaggerate when you show people the value you place on them.
  • This anxiety might not be attractive to people that don't have the sam...

  • This could be you if you are independent, but because you struggle with trusting others.
  • You fear that you might get hurt by other people.
  • You seem detached and distrustful and that will influence in a negative way the way people interact with you.

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