Focus on what your partner does right - Deepstash
How To Recover From Burnout

Learn more about loveandrelationships with this collection

Seeking support from others

Identifying the symptoms of burnout

Learning to say no

How To Recover From Burnout

Discover 44 similar ideas in

It takes just

7 mins to read

Focus on what your partner does right

Focus on what your partner does right

If you look for things your partner does wrong, you can always find something. 

If you look for what he or she does right, you can always find something, too. It all depends on what you want to look for. 

890

2.26K reads

MORE IDEAS ON THIS

Every morning and evening

  • Say “I love you” and “Have a good day” every morning. This is a great way to buy some patience and tolerance as each partner sets out each day to battle traffic jams, long lines and other annoyances.
  • Say “Good night” every night, regardle...

878

2.5K reads

Trust and forgiveness

If and when they have a disagreement or argument, and if they can’t resolve it, happy couples default to trusting and forgiving rather than distrusting and begrudging.

799

2.6K reads

Cultivate common interests

Don’t minimize the importance of activities you can do together that you both enjoy. If common interests are not present, happy couples develop them. 

At the same time, be sure to cultivate interests of your own; this will make you more interesting to your mate and prevents you from ...

762

2.24K reads

Go to bed at the same time

Happy couples resist the temptation to go to bed at different times. 

They go to bed at the same time, even if one partner wakes up later to do things while their partner sleeps.

825

4.54K reads

Be proud to be seen together

Be proud to be seen together

Happy couples are pleased to be seen together and are often in some kind of affectionate contact. They are not showing off but rather just saying that they belong with each other.

759

3.03K reads

Do a “weather” check during the day

Call your partner at home or at work to see how his or her day is going. This is a great way to adjust expectations so that you’re more in sync when you connect after work.

720

2.53K reads

CURATED FROM

CURATED BY

carlos_tb

Broken hearts got nothing on me. Love is beautiful.

Related collections

More like this

Check your empathy first

Before discussing performance in a 1:1 meeting, check your empathy first. You want to add value and find out how your direct report feels.

  • Does the person you're managing feel invested in your company or team goals?
  • Does he/she feel as if you've got his/her back...

Always Being Right

Always Being Right

It's damaging to decide that there's a "right" way to look at things and a "wrong" way to look at things and that your way of seeing things is right. 

Don't demand that your partner see things the same way, and don't take it as a personal attack if they have a different opinion.

Look ...

You focus more on what's wrong

You focus more on what's wrong

... rather than what's right.

You can focus on what a lazy, forgetful, good-for-nothing partner you have or you can see them as a wonderful and loving partner who occasionally overlooks a request when he or she is distracted. 

Choose where to spend...

Read & Learn

20x Faster

without
deepstash

with
deepstash

with

deepstash

Access to 200,000+ ideas

Access to the mobile app

Unlimited idea saving & library

Unlimited history

Unlimited listening to ideas

Downloading & offline access

Personalized recommendations

Supercharge your mind with one idea per day

Enter your email and spend 1 minute every day to learn something new.

Email

I agree to receive email updates