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Decipher the past from the present

Our strong emotional reactions can be our best clues to unfinished business from our past. 

The next time you experience a reaction that you suspect may be out of proportion from what you identify as the triggering event, take a moment to pause before responding.

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"At the touch of love, everyone becomes a poet." - Plato

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