Fake Behavior Throws Us Off
When we are faced with fake behavior, we don't necessarily know what to do with it. Without even realizing it, our internal interpreters are asking questions like:
- Are they hiding something?
- Can I trust them?
- Do I need to watch my back or be careful of what I say?
We are less likely to feel safe enough to be vulnerable with people who are inauthentic, and when we perceive someone isn’t being real with us, we naturally feel guarded around them.
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