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Chemistry versus compatibility; what's more important?
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Chemistry vs. compatibility
- Compatibility refers to the similarities between lifestyles and values that form the relationship without too much forcing or compromising on anyone’s part.
- Chemistry is that intangible, unspoken connection that results in feeling excitement and romance.
In most relationships, both qualities may be present, but one will be of a higher priority than the other.
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Judging people
Don't judge someone by the information they put in an online profile. They may look like a perfect fit, but lack the chemistry when you finally meet in person.
Similarly, it can be easy to write someone off because your ideals don't match on paper. Who's to know if you won't have chemistry in real life?
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What creates strong chemistry
Chemistry is made up of subtle behaviors and dispositions that are felt by both parties equally.
It could be the way someone laughs at your jokes or the way they talk to you or help you. The absence of chemistry is normally displayed in the lack of emotional intensity.
Compatibility between people
High compatibility between people comes from the similarities in their lifestyles and values.
Educated people usually date other educated people. Religious people usually date other religious people. People that are not compatible normally repel one another.