I find that so much about understanding life is about knowing where you stand inside of it. Gaining a perspective will elevate you to a better place. The biggest perspective change I had was with death 💀. Let's think about time as money 💰The reality is, we are withdrawing from our bank account on day 1. Every single day we are just given an allowance. As the bank account gets smaller. When I finally realized this / accepted it. I gained a lot of perspective. I do not want to get to the end of my life to find out that I spent it on all of the wrong things.

Step One - Gaining Some Perspective

So often we make decisions in the MOMENT rather than making decisions ahead of time. I find that we make BETTER decisions ahead of time because we are not going to "cave" or "change our minds".

Step Two - Make the Decision BEFORE the moment

Having a person that knows your goals and will ask you about them spurs you to accomplish them.

Step Three - Get Accountable

Substituting our distractions with other things that improve our life I have found to aid me in motivating me to change what I spend my time on. The biggest change I made by far was switching all of my social media to LinkedIn. I find that there is a community of people building, inspiring, growing, and supporting others. Joining that during my "downtime" really helped me to start pushing myself.

Step Four - Replace Distractions

People make all of the difference in our life. From what we do or do not do. To what we believe we can or can not accomplish. Find a community of people that inspire you, challenge you, elevate you. Then make sure you be that to someone else one day 😊

Final Thought - Get a Community

The "One Day" cycle is a dangerous lie that we tell ourselves. It's a lie that we can wake up from 10 years later and realize we never really did anything that we really wanted to.

The cycle of "One Day" is the reason I am not at my goal weight, not at the skill level, not at my fill-in-the-blank. One day I will go to the gym, one day I will get my degree, one day I will change to that career track. So start today, you might fail, give yourself grace, and get started that day again! How do we break it?

Breaking The Cycle Of One Day

The "One Day" cycle is a dangerous lie that we tell ourselves. It's a lie that we can wake up from 10 years later and realize we never really did anything that we really wanted to. 

The cycle of "One Day" is the reason I am not at my goal weight, not at the skill level, not at my fill-in-the-blank. One day I will go to the gym, one day I will get my degree, one day I will change to that career track. How do we break this cycle of "One Day". Rather than focusing on the future efforts WE BELIEVE are going to happen, how do we shift into working at the moment to get our goals and our vision for our life accomplished? So let us break down a few elements that I think can go into

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