7. Identify YOUR own 'YES'
When you say 'yes' to something you’re saying 'no' to something else
identify the things in your life that you value most so when something comes along, you are more likely to honor the things most important to you and say 'no' to everything else.
For example:
My priorities:
- Time for myself — sleep, watching tv shows that light me up
- Time with my husband and 2 cats— travels, eating together, doing nothing together
- Getting my business up and running
Being a pushover and saying yes to whatever other people ask me to do will leave me saying no to myself and my priorities.
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