Popular people do not focus on themselves, their problems, or their achievements. They are active listeners, asking a few questions to encourage others to talk. They do not expect perfection and tolerate the weaknesses of others well.
Reactive people believe the world is happening to them . They focus on things that are in their circle of concern, but not in their circle of influence. Proactive people recognize that they are able to choose how they will respond to a given situation. They focus on the things they can do something about.
7 Habits of Highly Effective People [Summary & Takeaways]